PLEASE PLEASE don't post anything negative on this as I really just wanted to get this out of my system and just let someone even if its just the internet know what happened. I don't want therapy I just want to get this out.
My Brother tortured me as a kid. He made me eat disgusting things, wrestle and he once even threw a bottle of coke in my face and gve me a black eye. Sometimes he would 'massage me' and would then 'massage' down there. I didn't know it was wrong I didn't even know what it was. I didn't tell anyone. He was horrible; I can't even remember how old I was when it started or ended or how many times. I read somewhere that kids can block It out in my case I didn't even realise it was wrong. It didn't hurt I just thought it felt weird.
As we grew older I started to remember. I remember telling friends i was scared of him but they just thought it was normal brother sister stuff. A friend that I once grew up with once said when a similar topic was mentioned that 'it was alright for me because I knew I could handle it'. My mum doesn't and will never know it would break her; she knows my brother can be horrible. I walk around with this and i'm just so confused. He was nice sometimes and horrible at others. Was he just curious? Did he know what he was doing? What do I do if he has kids? Was it my fault, i mean i never told anyone?
He's mostly nice these days but yells and and can just explode with anger. He has Asperger's and adhd not that is an excuse or anything but could that explain at least the anger part? He can be so sweet and then just switch. I can't run away or leave him in the past as it would break up the rest of my family; he's my brother. He has a girlfriend who is lovely but the way he talks to her sometimes and even me still. He always says the phrase ' or i'll kill' I grew up with that so never really put any thought into it but now Jesus holy christ that's bad.
At the time this happened I was being bullied in school I never told anyone I thought I deserved to be treated like that. It was only when I went college and everyone was nice to me I realised. Don't get me wrong I was a happy kid but when I look back now I can realise that okay no that wasn't okay I didn't deserve that. I don't want to go to therapy or anything like that I just wanted to get this out a bit as so many people have told me their stories and I may not be as strong as I would like but I want this to be known and to say to other people this happened to that you are not alone.
I have a boyfriend now and he knows hat something happened when I was a kid but I just won't say who as I don't want him to do anything. PLEASE PLEASE don't post anything negative on this as I really just wanted to get this out of my system and just let someone even if its just the internet know what happened. I don't want therapy I just want to get this out. This may not seem much but to someone who's been waling around with crap for over 7 years it is.