Hello,Being shy is something normal. Different people overcome it at different stage in their lives if they want at all, some never do. Time will tell everything in one way or other.To overcome it... you have to dig deeper back in your life in order to find out why is there on the first place and when you know why then you can best judge yourself what u can do to ''play with the shyness'', embrace it and ''take control over it''. Could be just because you are a nice person.. or you are looking for the ''right guy'' to unleash yourself, maybe it is experience and confidence you need to gain.. or simply you have limits and you may want to stick with them. Never hate you are shy, because this is very rare in people nowdays. This is my thoughts.Cheers and good luck!