Do boys always talk to other girls in a “flirty” way?

If a guy is single and looking for a girlfriend, it’s pretty much a necessity to flirt with girls. How else are you supposed to give hints and see if they reciprocate? It’s all a game of trial and error. Win some, lose some. He should be messaging 15-20 girls at the same time, but how many of them actually respond and reciprocate the flirting is a different question.

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Original post by asif007

If a guy is single and looking for a girlfriend, it’s pretty much a necessity to flirt with girls. How else are you supposed to give hints and see if they reciprocate? It’s all a game of trial and error. Win some, lose some. He should be messaging 15-20 girls at the same time, but how many of them actually respond and reciprocate the flirting is a different question.

That sounds desperate :eyeball:

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Since when did talking to lots of girls at the same time become desperate?

Reply 8

TJ1997

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Personally speaking, no

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Original post by asif007

Since when did talking to lots of girls at the same time become desperate?

When you flirt with all of them to look for a girlfriend lol.

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Better than being the nice guy and getting stuck in the friend zone

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candydiva

Original post by asif007

Better than being the nice guy and getting stuck in the friend zone

LOL! Yes xactly... I sometimes wonder how younger girls learn the realities of life. They ought to be evident enuf after all at least 95 percent of all M/F rels including the OP's I bet are initiated by males. Logically males need to have tons of F on snap etc to be able to initiate.

But some girls rlly don't get it from a dude's perspective. Coz guys who follow some dumb "rule" (read hypocritical prejudice) abt how many girl contacts r "acceptable" r the ones friendzoned 4eva.

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Fenneko

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Original post by Anonymous

If guys are always basically talking to girls but in a “flirty” or “entertaining” manner?

If I have to talk to a girl other than my fiancee nowadays, I only ever do it in a formal manner. It's naturally tempting to flirt with attractive girls because all men seek validation from women.

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ran-dumb

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Original post by Anonymous

If guys are always basically talking to girls but in a “flirty” or “entertaining” manner?

No guy will talk to every single girl they meet in a flirty way, probably only the ones they're interested in, and some guys don't flirt at all

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Original post by asif007

Better than being the nice guy and getting stuck in the friend zone

Which is obviously desperate. Don't you have preferences? This method means any girl will do.

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Hahaha why would I be flirting with girls I’m not attracted to? Hard as it is for you to understand, it is in fact possible for a man to have preferences that cover a lot of girls.

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Original post by asif007

Hahaha why would I be flirting with girls I’m not attracted to? Hard as it is for you to understand, it is in fact possible for a man to have preferences that cover a lot of girls.

Meh you do you. To me that reeks of deperado, even if you find all of the girls you chat up attractive.

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TreeFellOnMe

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Extroverted guys yes, my more extroverted buddies are always sharing pics of them chatting up girls on tinder. I honestly can't be arsed though, and I know it makes me sound stuck up but it's just too much effort to pretend to be interested in something I'm really not.

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zKlown