So, kind of girlfriend kind of not. Originally got together as friends with benefits maybe 4 months ago. I had said originally I wanted to be able to have sex with other people before we got together, and I wasn’t ready to get together yet. Before her I’d only had sex with one person, and she had sex with 6 beforehand. And I want to be able to have sex with a few more girls before i settle down.
So she agreed to that. For the first 2 months it was near constant sex. And then over the last 2 months she has changed to thinking of me as her boyfriend, made it exclusive without asking or having a conversation about it, and we’ve also nearly completely stopped having sex - maybe 3 times over the last 2 months. She has been over every night sleeping naked in my bed and never wants to do anything.
Sex is a big part of a relationship, and i don’t know how this could continue without it as I have a very high sex drive, and I’m made to feel bad any time I want to ****. She is also all over me and hinting at sex a lot but will just never do it, or do anything at all. I feel like it’s me that’s the problem, but she keeps saying she is really attracted to me and even said she doesn’t even think she could live without me.
On top of that, we can only really have sex for about 20 seconds now, as she says she hurts too much if we have sex for any longer