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    It really depends on the couple and how secure/confident they are. Some would say that my ex-girlfriend was way out of my league and that we were aesthetically mismatched. Sometimes I was pleased that I managed to get with someone who was so attractive, but I was also in a lot of disbelief about whether she really liked me for my appearance because of it.
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    (Original post by MidnightDream)
    There are other important things than just your personality and no I actually can't you're a tough one to figure out methinks

    Anyhoo I'm always getting action :teehee:
    and youre a smart gurl

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    (Original post by trustmeimlying1)
    and youre a smart gurl

    :eek:
    *you're *girl

    are you asking a question or what?

    And yes dear I am :teehee:
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    (Original post by MidnightDream)
    *you're *girl

    are you asking a question or what?

    And yes dear I am :teehee:
    haha its the internet no need to go nazi p

    youve already answered...ms dream gurl has turned playa for summer
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    (Original post by OL1V3R)
    It really depends on the couple and how secure/confident they are. Some would say that my ex-girlfriend was way out of my league and that we were aesthetically mismatched. Sometimes I was pleased that I managed to get with someone who was so attractive, but I was also in a lot of disbelief about whether she really liked me for my appearance because of it.
    yeh its just happening to me again and Idk
    you question yourself dont yeh:?
    if I make her happy tho I guess thats what counts

    plus she has to keep making me happy too so not like she has it easy p
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    This is a problem for me , as a male who is in a league of his own.



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    Unless you're literally on the verge of going bankrupt or utterly hideous, there are no leagues
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    (Original post by trustmeimlying1)
    haha its the internet no need to go nazi p

    youve already answered...ms dream gurl has turned playa for summer
    I'm not a player :unimpressed:
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    (Original post by MidnightDream)
    I'm not a player :unimpressed:
    you just get lots being you I know..

    see the uni student show 2nite?
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    (Original post by trustmeimlying1)
    you just get lots being you I know..

    see the uni student show 2nite?
    Sure sure

    Nope went to bed early I'm going to watch it now
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    I studied psychology and accordingly , most psychologists agree that if you are out of your partner's league , you will feel dissatisfied and feel entitled to strive for more.
    Equally , if your partner feels you are out of their league they will feel insecure and are likely to suffer from anxiety over whether you are being faithful.
    Also , opposites do not attract - according to a psychologist I can't remember the name of :P they said that what attracts you to a person (unique and opposing characteristics) become predictable , boring and annoying. That leads to dissolution.
    So yeah , stick to your league :P unless you've got lots of money


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    Don't really believe in leagues.
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    No such thing as leagues.

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    (Original post by MidnightDream)
    Sure sure

    Nope went to bed early I'm going to watch it now
    grand

    enjoy

    good idea taking that early nap!
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    (Original post by trustmeimlying1)
    grand

    enjoy

    good idea taking that early nap!
    Wasn't my idea 'twas my mothers :unimpressed:

    Finished it in one of my frees 'twas quite good :yep:
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    (Original post by MidnightDream)
    Wasn't my idea 'twas my mothers :unimpressed:

    Finished it in one of my frees 'twas quite good :yep:
    yeer still in school!:O I thought yee finished yeer alevels ages ago..

    shes a smart wan so..I know the consequences of bad nights sleep

    yeh not as good as the rest of them but the most relatable
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    (Original post by trustmeimlying1)
    yeer still in school!:O I thought yee finished yeer alevels ages ago..

    shes a smart wan so..I know the consequences of bad nights sleep

    yeh not as good as the rest of them but the most relatable
    I finished my AS levels yonks ago but I had to come back to school to learn A2 - don't finish till next Tuesday :cry2:

    'Twas quite relatable :yep:
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    (Original post by hotliketea)
    I studied psychology and accordingly , most psychologists agree that if you are out of your partner's league , you will feel dissatisfied and feel entitled to strive for more.
    Equally , if your partner feels you are out of their league they will feel insecure and are likely to suffer from anxiety over whether you are being faithful.
    Also , opposites do not attract - according to a psychologist I can't remember the name of :P they said that what attracts you to a person (unique and opposing characteristics) become predictable , boring and annoying. That leads to dissolution.
    So yeah , stick to your league :P unless you've got lots of money


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    Il guess youll have to start rolling in the cash babes

    otherwise Il have to move on to better things :cool:
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    This is weird because my girlfriend thinks she's "out of my league", and I think I'm out of hers. But we've been together for a year, so it seems to be working out okay. It's all about trust. If you trust your partner then you shouldn't care about leagues. After all, if they've chosen to be with you, then it's obvious they see something in you, whether that be looks or not.

    (Original post by andrew2209)
    Well if you've got with them, then you've done the hard part. In the case of a male dating above his league though, a girl's friend would tend to interfere and tell the girl she could do better more than the reverse scenario.
    This is true in my case. Most of my girlfriend's friends hate me, mainly because I'm very loud and say what I think, so that makes me a b*****d, whereas my friends love her. I actually really want her friends to like me, though, so we've had a do-over this month, hopefully this will work.
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    (Original post by MidnightDream)
    I finished my AS levels yonks ago but I had to come back to school to learn A2 - don't finish till next Tuesday :cry2:

    'Twas quite relatable :yep:
    best of luck then!!

    im sure youll be grand kid x

    oh really..looks like troy isnt as faithful as we thought..
 
 
 
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