The Ugly Friend

Girls alwys talk about their friends looks, I though this only applied to preety girls? No wonder most girls are up their own ass.

I don't

I and my friends usually talk about boys, fashion, school etc.
I can't imagine the day our conversations centre around how ugly another 'friend' is.

I agree.

What I've also noticed is... In my group of 7 closest friends (from home) the ones who were considered most attractive while we were in high school are now suddenly the ''ugly'' ones, and the ones that used to get no attention in school are now fighting guys off with a big stick.

Very few people are actually ugly. You sound like a good person. I kid of know what you mean - when I get to be friends with someone, I don't have a picture in my head when I think of them so much as a mix of their characteristics and expressions. Your flatmate doesn't sound like a nice person, tbh. Who always talks about their friend like that?

I agree.

What I've also noticed is... In my group of 7 closest friends (from home) the ones who were considered most attractive while we were in high school are now suddenly the ''ugly'' ones, and the ones that used to get no attention in school are now fighting guys off with a big stick.

So youre not preety I guess?

I think I'm beautiful in my own eyes (same as all my boyfriends) ... All my friends are beautiful in my eyes.

Thats so true! Everytime i think of one of my friends, i never really see a still picture, just an expression or something relating to their personality.

OP, i know what you mean about not thinking of your friends as ugly, I have some friends people wouldn't think are conventionally pretty but they still appear beautiful to me I think when you really like a person, they're appearance also kinda grows on you maybe?

I think I'm beautiful in my own eyes (same as all my boyfriends) ... All my friends are beautiful in my eyes.

I have 3 best friends. ALL of us have boyfriends. ALL of us get our share of attention.

There is no 'sad' or 'ugly' one.

When we meet us we all share stories about whose boyfriend has done what or whatever new guy we are seeing. It's never a competition.

We have been best friends for 8 years now and have grown up together, watched each other go from year 7 through to college etc and have had all kinds of make up and fashion disasters.

We have also been through a lot together emotionally.

Because of this I can't ever look at them as 'ugly' or 'pretty'.

I think genuine friendship is ALOT deeper than that.

I like what you've said here. +Rep.

LOL. I don't need to post of a photo of me and my friends to prove we are attractive they would defeat the purpose of my WHOLE thread.

I don't think you got my point.....

i am the ugly friend and i know it everytime we go into a bathroom with mirrors

but i don't care, cause we all have a laugh and a good time and generally forget all about looks and crap like that.

your flatmate sounds horrible, i wouldn't get into her group of friends if i were you

That's sweet!

just because you say someone is ugly doesn't mean that your not friends, it is just a fact ,but i think with guys we just care so much less because looks are less important for a guy.

women on the other hand, most groups tend to always have an ugly friend and they'll say she's pretty and maybe they believe it maybe they don't, but that person is still ugly (and you'll have to pair an unlucky friend off with her if you want to get anywhere with the others)