I feel for you, im in a LDR now. Funny enough, been reading about communication and LDR. Been with my bf nearly 3 years, he moved a few hundred miles away to start an access course. We've done LDR before, long story, and it was HARD. The hardest part for me was my boyfriends insensitivity to appreciate the importance of communication to keep us strong. Even if he wasn't a big communicator, a nice little text would brighten my day to know he's thinking of me. Im pretty laid back, i dont have to hear from him every few hours - but at least one text is not much to ask. A phone call every day would be ideal and i think should be the case to keep things strong, but, every other day is acceptable - literally. I mean, if we can speak to our mates pretty much every day by text, why not the person we love?
For eg. I spoke to my boyfriend last night, and all was good. He said hed phone me today.So come 1pm i was like, 'i'll send him a txt to know i am thinking of him' (hes moved into a new houseshare and doesnt know anyone yet). No reply come 8 hours later. So i ring him (i never usually ring him), he answers and says hes on his way to his best friend's girlfriend's flat to chill out/go the pub (his best friend and his gfriend live together - his best friend was away this weekend with uni mates). So naturally im like, oh, you ignore my text, but go out of your way to answer your best mate's gfriend txt and arrange a night out/in?
If he had SIMPLY just replied to my text - even if it were a few hours later, not never, i doubt i would have been as highly strung as i was on the phone.
How long have you been together and why are you LDR?