She's moving abroad

Go to France or stay in the UK.

Going to France isn't an option. Plus I'm not already in a relationship with her to make that kinda leap.

Get over her then.

Easier said then done.

Sorry about your predicament. If she is going and its not feasible to go too then such as life i am afraid. Perhaps stay in touch, maybe in the future who knows.

Well, it'll be hard to get over her but that is what you have to do. Take the experience as a positive; a girl liked you, you got on well, so there's evidence that you're capable of that. The easiest way to get over someone is to find someone new.

I really doubt she's "the one". Don't you think you're too young to find "the one"? And even if you really like her and she is the one, maybe you'll meet more girls? You have so many years ahead of you and so many people to meet

What if this girl 'is the one' though? I know she is, but circumstances won't allow.
I don't meet a lot of new girls, but I'm not really interested anyway. I'm not interested in the whole dating thing...but this girl was the exception.

Well, you're right that you could never meet anyone you deem as right for you as you did her, that's true. But it's also possible you will, and it's also possible that it wouldn't have worked out with her if she stayed, so it's pointless to speculate like that. I sincerely doubt that she is the only girl in the world that you can connect with though, so calling her "the one" may yet be a little premature. You're 23; that's still a large number of years ahead of you, in which, I assume, you'll be forced into social situations through work and perhaps other commitments. You can't say what will or will not happen in this time.


I can appreciate where you're coming from though; I'm about to turn 23 and have also had zero luck with the ladies.

Look, if you really feel so strongly tell her and see if you can give it a go. You hardly have anything to lose.

Yeah will stay in tough, though she starts uni in September for 3 years. She may be coming back after that...but that's three years away.

Stay in touch with her - it often sounds crazy to people who are used to seeing the people they like on a regular basis, but long-distance relationships can work. But obviously she'll have to want to put in the effort as well as you.

Talk to her about it - maybe spend some time with her before she leaves, just in a friendly way, and if you're still getting on well then tell her at the end that you seriously do want to keep in touch. If she feels the same way about you, she'll hopefully agree. And make the first move - send her the first message once she's over there and, assuming she's enjoying speaking to you, don't be afraid to message her a couple of times a week or arrange a Skype conversation.