Two years ago, I met a guy at my new sixth form and we've been friends since then. We were very close friends up until our A Levels finished last June. Ever since then, he's decided to change his personality completely and become one of the worst people I have the misfortune of talking to.
I came out to him (and he was one of the first people I came out to) last September and at that moment in time he said he was okay with it and didn't mind at all. Recently, I decided to start coming out to all my other friends in our group and all of a sudden he's beginning to question my sexuality. He started telling me that being gay is a choice I made because I was bored of girls and now calls it my "switch-over". He said that if I like guys, then technically I should be considered a girl and not a guy. He also constantly tells me to "man-up" and stop acting so feminine (even though all my friends agree that I am not at all effeminate).
I've tried to ignore him as much as possible but he keeps trying to talk to me about these things. I've tried to pass it off as a misunderstanding and move on but today, once again, he decided to make another move.
He messaged me saying that his family was suspecting "my little secret", even though his parents have barely ever met me and we've probably talked for a total of 30 seconds in these last two years. He said that he was watching a film and a gay scene came up and that they suddenly started to ask about me (whether I was gay like in that scene) and apparently called me a faggot and effeminate. I find it hard to believe how they could have known this without actually spending time with me which makes me believe he's the one that told them everything.
He then said that he couldn't say the word "gay" because he said it made him uncomfortable and it's a practice that goes against his religion, and that he'd rather watch a surgery or anything else than two guys kissing or being involved romantically?!
I don't understand why he felt the need to tell me all of this knowing that a) I am gay b) that I'm not in a very good position at the moment? I've literally spent the past 2 hours crying and feeling horrible about myself when he is supposedly my best friend.
I'm honestly so confused and so deeply hurt right now. What do I do?