My gf said when she get's depressed she will be cold and snappy with me and is scared she will hurt me, she has, should i wait or is this over?
Ok so me and my gf have been together for 2 months now, first month was amazing so happy right, 2nd month rocky, she suffers from severe depresion, if you met her you would never think she had it, she is a very outgoing and active person who seems like she has an extremely fun life, and she does but deep down she is very depressed. She has even tried to take her own life twice in the past, takes mediciation for it etc.
She tells me how i'm her best friend, how she couldn't have got through the last couple months without me being there for her and how she appreicates how much i understand and i care. I mean i've always tried to be there for her, when she's down I've told her to put all her stress on me and i'll take it, told her she can talk to me because she never talks to people about it, i'm about the only person she's been able to open up to about it.
About a month ago she told me her depression comes in waves and it can last for weeks, she told me when it comes she can become really cold distant and snappy with me and she doesn't want to hurt me but that's how she gets, I told her i love and i'll always be there for here. Anyway fast forward a couple weeks we have had exams so she's been quite stressed and this is precisely what's happening, she's very cold never picks up calls or replies to texts, puts me down quite a lot, calls me stupid and dumb at times, is never happy with me everything i do these days is wrong, i try and talk to her comfort her but she doesn't want to be near me, the other night she didn't even want to cuddle me, it's like i was a stranger in her bed.
It's kind of like bi polar tendencies i mean she was telling me how she loved me after like a month of us seeing eachother, she told all her family friends, so it's feels like she wanted this but now it's like she doesn't even want to know me. What do i do, should i stay and ride it out till after exams, talk to her? I have a feeling she's going to dump me any moment tbh. What should i do?