Am I a bad person for wanting my ex to suffer?

At the moment, karma is doing its work but I can't help but feel so happy!

That's true, it's worse when they cheat..

I think you need to be careful, Karma is one thing, but hate and revenge can be a bit disruptive to you.

I think you need to be careful, Karma is one thing, but hate and revenge can be a bit disruptive to you.

Listen, the fact you are still occupied with him like that after 3 years is a bit suspicious.

The best revenge is to forget him and move on.

Nah it doesn't make u a bad person at all.. If you don't mind me asking how is he suffering now?

He wants to get back together.

He's been trying to move on from me for nearly 3 years in February (when we officially broke up)

I think you should think before posting comments like this. I know exactly how she feels I've been in the same position. A guys family didn't approve me neither so he broke up with me after 2 years and he also made me out to be a bad one. It's not really that you wish bad on people. You just have a hope deep down inside that the person will realise. As you were so good to them.

How long was he with this new girl for? after he was "trying" to get over you

It's like when Maggy Thatcher died and I ran on the streets shouting with joy. Oh **** didn't mean to say that out loud.

How long was he with this new girl for? after he was "trying" to get over you

Exactly! I was with him for 3 years, I'm not being vain but I was nothing but really good towards him. He would share and tell me everything because he wanted to and felt comfortable in doing so, I've never forced him to. I didn't force him to be with me either.

I know it's been a long time since we broke up, but we were together for 3 years. Kind of ironic, cheating stays with you forever. I've tried so hard to forget everything and forgive the cheating but I can't.

Anyway, he's the one who wants to reconcile the THIRD time not me.

I remember hearing "ding dong the wicked witch is dead" on the radio

Are you sure it wasn't me outside the window

He's has two rebounds relationships. One for 18 months and another for a year.

During this time, he's tried to reconcile with me three times.

He's has two rebounds relationships. One for 18 months and another for a year.

During this time, he's tried to reconcile with me three times.

I just found out today because I had no clue, that's why I'm so happy lol

He's has two rebounds relationships. One for 18 months and another for a year.

During this time, he's tried to reconcile with me three times.

So he's had two rebounds for that long.. They probably won't rebounds. We as women try to make ourselves feel better by calling these poor women rebounds. The truth is he moved on from you not once but twice and because It didn't work out for him he knew you would be there in the background as a safety net. He probably shared things and had the same relationship with them as he did with you.

Difference is you put up with his behaviour for longer than these girls did