23 but attracted to older women (30+) Anyone else?

I am a girl , and I think it's not wrong I don't know why people think it is , the age gap isn't that massive . You be you . But why 30yr women apart from looking mature and successful , k just think many of the woman you are looking for settled in a family and blah blah

lol@beta males.

It's true. So many beautiful, successful women settle for men who are inferior career and looks-wise. They most often look like chavvy football hooligans as well and work in low skilled jobs whilst their female counterpart rakes it in.

I'm attracted to single, career-driven women but wouldn't mind having an affair with a woman who is bored of her beta husband.

I don't think it is strange at all. You're obviously particularly mature for your age and want someone on the same wavelength. A lot of 30+ women would feel great having a younger guy, as long as he offered what she wanted like in any other situation. It's not to say there arent younger women who would be as mature, successful etc though. It's not always about physical age so much as it is about personality and life goals. Just about being compatible I'd say.

Thank you yeah, true!
I'm just not sure how I can meet my dream woman. I want to get to know and connect on a personal level first, so picking up in bars etc doesn't interest me.

At work there are so many beautiful older women, but it's hard to tell who would be into dating someone much younger and so I don't know how to meet someone in that way. I know there are women out there who would be into it but it seems like a really secretive thing.

You just need to be yourself and maybe flirt a little to show you're interested? These things happen naturally if you have a bit of confidence. I don't think it's always the case that it's a "really secretive thing". My ex was over 3 years younger than me and it never bothered him. I also know a couple where the woman was 29 and the guy was 21/22? They were together for just over two years before they got married and now have a baby! It does happen. You just need to connect in the normal way and try not to worry too much about age. It is probably more likely that the woman wouldn't feel good enough/young enough for you, so it's up to you to reassure her that age isn't an issue

Great Advice, Well written

You just need to be yourself and maybe flirt a little to show you're interested? These things happen naturally if you have a bit of confidence. I don't think it's always the case that it's a "really secretive thing". My ex was over 3 years younger than me and it never bothered him. I also know a couple where the woman was 29 and the guy was 21/22? They were together for just over two years before they got married and now have a baby! It does happen. You just need to connect in the normal way and try not to worry too much about age. It is probably more likely that the woman wouldn't feel good enough/young enough for you, so it's up to you to reassure her that age isn't an issue

I'm obsessed with a 30 year old atm, too bad I can't have her

Thanks for advice! This gives me hope

I was dating a really pleasant girl from uni but I recently ended things because I wasn't truly happy.

There's a lady from work, I thought someone said she was 31 but now I think she's 35 because she has "82" in her username? Anyway, she's single whilst most her age are married with kids. I've got to know her more and we share so many interests. I'm so infactuated with everything she has achieved, the way she interacts with people and the way she carries herself.
She's just so ****ing cool. I looked at her social media and her last relationship ended in 2012. She is the epitome of a sexy, mature woman and I'd do anything for her. I kind of dropped my relationship with my ex because I can't get this other woman outta my head.

Should I let her know I would crawl through broken glass just to be able to smell the remains of the **** she excreeted last week?

I'm obsessed with a 30 year old atm, too bad I can't have her

Erm, probably don't say that!! But you could definitely ask her if she fancies grabbing a coffee or something


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