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Girls: Would someone who smokes weed be a deal breaker?

Anonymous #1

Could you be in a relationship with someone who smokes weed (in private)?

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Reply 1

Future.

Original post by Anonymous

Could you be in a relationship with someone who smokes weed (in private)?

If he's a constant stoner, then no.

Reply 2

claireestelle

Nope, but then anything more than the occasional drink would bother me.

Reply 3

phunky_fresh

Yeah, my boyfriend smokes it. I didn't like the idea before him though, but it doesn't bother me anymore.

Reply 4

UWS

If it's not around me then it's fine.

Reply 5

username1753569

Original post by Anonymous

Could you be in a relationship with someone who smokes weed (in private)?

It'd depend on the scale of use, if they partake in it as little as a few times per year, I have no problem with that. It becomes an issue for me when it's a habit. That being said, there are millions of women out there who'd not care, so don't worry! :smile:

no one gives a ****

No, I hate the smell of it it just clings to everything

Reply 8

FopePrancis

Not at all, in fact weed be good together.

Reply 9

Amefish

It's fine unless they're obsessed with it. Like if they're only gonna be scouting out their next draw whenever we see each other then nah I'm not interested. Other use doesn't bother me though.

Reply 10

Tiger Rag

No. Anything smoke related (even the smell) is an asthma trigger. Really don't want to date someone who does something that will affect my health.

Reply 11

squirrology

No I would not be in a relationship with someone who smokes weed because it's illegal in the UK even if it's "in private", so yes it is a dealbreaker.

And anyway it doesn't matter what they're smoking, I still won't be in a relationship with them regardless.

Reply 12

silverfox44

the smell makes me nauseous so probably no, also 'stoner guys' are so annoying and don't shut up about it

Reply 13

bobby147

Original post by UWS

If it's not around me then it's fine.

Wtf,your a girl ?

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

Original post by Future.

If he's a constant stoner, then no.

Original post by slowdive

Original post by Amefish

It's fine unless they're obsessed with it. Like if they're only gonna be scouting out their next draw whenever we see each other then nah I'm not interested. Other use doesn't bother me though.

Once a week? You probably wouldn't even know tbh unless they tell you.

Reply 15

Amefish

Original post by Anonymous

Once a week? You probably wouldn't even know tbh unless they tell you.

Once a week is not bad at all.

Reply 16

Future.

Original post by Anonymous

Once a week? You probably wouldn't even know tbh unless they tell you.

Once a week is ok... i guess.

Reply 17

butfirst_coffee

Weed smell makes me nauseous so no

Reply 18

Unistudent77

People (girls) are interpreting this as him smoking beside you.
Obvs you'd do that if she was chill with it but you could just smoke outside...

Don't see how it's any different to a couple glasses of wine or couple beers

Random fact: With Life Insurance (so companies will increase your prices if you do something hazardous ie smoke cigs) weekly cannabis use does not increase your prices and gets you accepted. Drinking more than 4 pints and 4 glasses of wine a week can quite often get you a loading on your premiums

Tl;DR - 4/20 blaze it
But don't become a stoner

(edited 6 years ago)

Reply 19

CleverSquirrel

If you’d asked me this a few months ago I would have said ‘yeah Id be fine with it’

Now im just put off and hate the sight/smell of it, but then again that could just be the new change in lifestyle im going through- i.e this new fitness programme and things that have happened re my family ect and my PT has banned me from all drugs and alcohol which over time have just become a turn off now tbh
weed being good for you ect is all bs...