why do guys always think I’m flirting with them?

i noticed that many times being kind = flirting(at least for them), so i guess you should be less kind to them? idk good luck with that

i noticed that many times being kind = flirting(at least for them), so i guess you should be less kind to them? idk good luck with that

I agree with the first comment, it's just your personality and your friends should know you well enough to make you feel bad about it.

You can't really, unless you're giving them explicit links (touching a lot etc.) A lot of guys will just mistake female attention as meaning they're interested but that's really not your fault, you can't stop talking to people.

Try stating when you first meet them that you're not interested in a relationship or something like that. Try to fit it in a conversation. I think that way they'd be less likely to interpret your overt friendless as flirty. Also, do you treat other girls like this? Maybe if they see you treating others like that they'd realise they're not special. I Try being slightly over the top with it, treating everyone in that same friendly way and make sure they see, lol.

The majority of guys would take a smile as a sign you want to ****.

Try being more reserved and not laugh as much around them.
Give one word answers.
or subtly hint you have a crush on someone else

I told a guy I have a bf to stop him from thinking I’m flirting and he said “i can tell you don’t” .......what does that MEAN?

It means he's a ****.

What do you mean? He clearly is a **** and either (1) does not believe / respect you (2) does not care you have a BF and is still going for it - still not respecting you. Either way he is ****.

Even when I’m just being normal with guys, they think I’m flirting and I don’t get why. Close guy friends sometimes look at me blankly after I say something and say “are you flirting with me?” and guys have asked me out then are surprised when I reject them because I was “flirting”. How do I stop this?