A little bit of background. I have known these friends since high school and we have been living together for a few months now. A fair amount of time we have fun and a laugh together, which is great but, sometimes they can be incredibly judgemental and make me feel like I am always in the wrong even when I am not.
I had a bit of a breakdown last month and snapped at my friends as they kept nagging me about things in my private life and when I tried to apologise and explain why I was upset and angry, they kept talking to me like it was entirely my fault, even though I had explained to them that when I am in that state, it is best to back off and leave me alone.
They then proceeded to make the situation worse by not letting me calm down, blaming everything on me and making me even more miserable than I already was.
Once I had calmed down (following morning), I realised that my behaviour was out of order and I tried to apologise. I explained that I was going to get some more help with my mental health. They then proceeded to tell me that they planned to move out or that I had to leave. This made me incredibly upset and set the problems off again.
We managed to resolve our differences and I explained to them that sometimes their behaviour actually makes matters worse. They claim that they care about me and that they are really understanding and tolerant in regards to my mental health issues (which they have known about from the start) but it doesn't feel like they are. Sometimes, I feel like I don't belong in my own home and that I am an outsider. Those two are really close and have tonnes in common whereas I have no common interests with them.
One friend seems to only ever have an attitude problem with me, he never speaks to our other friend like he does to me and she seems to always take his side.
I wish that I could make them understand how they make me feel and get them to be a little more compassionate, the way that I am with them whenever they have problems going on, but I feel like I am fighting a losing battle.
I don't know what to do. I hate the way I am made to feel in my own home but I don't know if I should leave, especially as I am in my final term at university.
Can someone help me to understand what I can do?
Thanks.