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Two immature people in a relationship?

With common friends , some common ideologies and sex.
But both are extremely immature and exhibit borderline toxic traits . How long can this last?

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Original post by Anonymous
With common friends , some common ideologies and sex.
But both are extremely immature and exhibit borderline toxic traits . How long can this last?

Until one becomes more matture and has an influence over the other to start behaving in a less immature way?
Reply 2
Original post by Anonymous
Until one becomes more matture and has an influence over the other to start behaving in a less immature way?

Don't know
However long they make it last for. If they’re both the same level of immaturity then it’s not really an issue within the relationship.
Is it your relationship?
Someone else’s?
Reply 4
Why are these person even in a relationship in the first place?
Reply 5
Original post by Surnia
Why are these person even in a relationship in the first place?

What do you mean?
Reply 6
Original post by Anonymous
What do you mean?

If people are immature and toxic, what makes them think they can care enough about another person to get involved in a relationship with them?
Reply 7
Original post by Surnia
If people are immature and toxic, what makes them think they can care enough about another person to get involved in a relationship with them?

When there's lot of sex involved along with meeting familiy or adding family on Facebook Instagram? Then isn't there maturity and seriousness?
Probably until the lust fizzles out and the relationship begins to feel boring.
Then one or both will get tired of the other and decide that they prefer to seek excitement elsewhere, with a new hookup or convenient relationship.
Alternatively one could successfully encourage the other to act like a reasonable adult.
You just described most under 21 relationships
Original post by Anonymous
When there's lot of sex involved along with meeting familiy or adding family on Facebook Instagram? Then isn't there maturity and seriousness?


The two do not equal each other.
Maturity and adding family on Facebook have nothing to do with each other
Same as “lot of sex”
(edited 3 years ago)
Reply 11
Original post by Anonymous
When there's lot of sex involved along with meeting familiy or adding family on Facebook Instagram? Then isn't there maturity and seriousness?

You originally said they were immature, not me, so why do you think that?

None of what you've said is particularly adult or serious. Why is lots of sex and posting on Instagram a mature thing?
Original post by Surnia
You originally said they were immature, not me, so why do you think that?

None of what you've said is particularly adult or serious. Why is lots of sex and posting on Instagram a mature thing?

Because adding fam means serious or marriage?
Original post by GabiAbi84
The two do not equal each other.
Maturity and adding family on Facebook have nothing to do with each other
Same as “lot of sex”

But why not? Family acceptance by social media and meeting them is a sign of very serious relationship heading towards marriage?
Original post by Anonymous
But why not? Family acceptance by social media and meeting them is a sign of very serious relationship heading towards marriage?


No it doesn’t.
It didn’t when you said this on your other thread, and it still doesn’t now.
Adding family on social media means NOTHING to do with whether it is headed towards marriage.
All it means is that you have reached the stage where you have met each other’s families 🙄
Original post by GabiAbi84
No it doesn’t.
It didn’t when you said this on your other thread, and it still doesn’t now.
Adding family on social media means NOTHING to do with whether it is headed towards marriage.
All it means is that you have reached the stage where you have met each other’s families 🙄

And isn't this stage serious and mature ?
Reply 16
The fact that your making this thread screams "not very long".
Reply 17
Original post by Anonymous
And isn't this stage serious and mature ?

Being serious and being mature are two very different things.
Original post by Anonymous
And isn't this stage serious and mature ?


Not really,no.
In some circumstances it can, in others it doesn’t.
And what does any of this have to do with the beginning post of the thread about two immature people???
Original post by GabiAbi84
Not really,no.
In some circumstances it can, in others it doesn’t.
And what does any of this have to do with the beginning post of the thread about two immature people???

In my circumstances it can right? Considering I met early on but she has now met properly and added them after almost 2 years?

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