Crush on older women

I just have a crush on a older woman shes in her late 30s maybe even early and im 19. She lives on my road I dont know her I just think she is good looking, my parents know her. She came in our house for a tour then they came in my room and I was carrying on what I was doing and she just said "you alright" but I didnt want her to judge my voice or anything. Shes got babies and a partner but because my parents know her I have found out from them that she's split up with him. I just dont know what what to do about it because doing nothing about is just getting on my mind, i keep thinking about her and it gettng awkward when im out on the drive when she is but i dont have the confidence to say hi.

I personally think you should get over this woman because you're just gonna get yourself hurt. Are you a girl or a guy?


It's your decision because there's an odd chance something might work but you're 19, you're probably classed as a baby from her point of view when thinking about dating . She's got kids as you say and I'm sure she doesn't need a teenager to be her partner - I feel so bad saying this but if you keep carrying on, you'll get hurt. You'll find someone around your own age but who knows you might work out! But it's your choice for the risk of getting really hurt.



Good luck

It might be REALLY embarrassing but talk to your parents about it or siblings as they might help you get over her and make sure you entertain yourself . Facetime/call friends , meet some (sticking with the covid rules of course and stay two metres apart ) , decorate the tree if you haven't already. Get yourself busy so you won't need to think about her .

What about when im 20

What about when im 20

No

If you don't ask her out on a dinner, you'll never know. You're an adult so there's nothing wrong with it. If you do start seeing her, just make sure you both are clear from the start whether it's just casual or looking for something longer term.

I just have a crush on a older woman shes in her late 30s maybe even early and im 19. She lives on my road I dont know her I just think she is good looking, my parents know her. She came in our house for a tour then they came in my room and I was carrying on what I was doing and she just said "you alright" but I didnt want her to judge my voice or anything. Shes got babies and a partner but because my parents know her I have found out from them that she's split up with him. I just dont know what what to do about it because doing nothing about is just getting on my mind, i keep thinking about her and it gettng awkward when im out on the drive when she is but i dont have the confidence to say hi.

Mate, I am a 29 year old guy and I like a 45 year old lady. I asked her out on a date, she laughed it off. As people get older, a large age gap becomes less significant. Me and my crush are both mature, however, she is still older than me.

In most cases women prefer to be with older guys or guys within their age group. Unless your crush is attracted to teenagers, I don't see why she would consider dating a guy who is young enough to be in uni, when she is at a stage in life of marriage, kids and work.

Agreed. She has babies fgs

I am with an older man who is divorced with two kids from two different women. We live together and are happy. I get on very well with both kids who are young and they both love me as I do them. It doesn't matter if the woman has babies. Does not mean she cannot enjoy the company or even love a younger man.

I just have a crush on a older woman shes in her late 30s maybe even early and im 19. She lives on my road I dont know her I just think she is good looking, my parents know her. She came in our house for a tour then they came in my room and I was carrying on what I was doing and she just said "you alright" but I didnt want her to judge my voice or anything. Shes got babies and a partner but because my parents know her I have found out from them that she's split up with him. I just dont know what what to do about it because doing nothing about is just getting on my mind, i keep thinking about her and it gettng awkward when im out on the drive when she is but i dont have the confidence to say hi.