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(Original post by Dunnig Kruger)
If everything were to work out fine, how would you carry on a relationship with her? Bearing in mind the 80 mile distance.

On the face of it, it does sound catfishy.

If she does turn out to be genuine, try not to feel overawed by her online presence - which is all a load of fluffy relatively unimportant stuff.

Has she asked for money? If she has she's a scammer. If some last minute emergency comes up where she needs some cash quick, that's a scam too.

If you have a car, or the public transport links aren't too bad, I'd say go along and treat it as a day out on your own. If someone turns up to meet you, treat that as a bonus.
Nah she hasn’t asked me for money or we haven’t even spoke about sex or anything like that. Just hobbies and stuff were into really, but mentally in treating it like that. The 80 miles away is just her University, she actually lives about 15 ish miles away and has family right by me so she said she’s always in my area.
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As a final precaution, I'd ask her to write your name on a piece of paper and take an image of her behind it (so it covers her face), if you see a glimpse of long hair, it'll likely confirm that she's a woman and not a catfish. I'm questioning how you can agree to meet her when you don't know what she looks like, you might not find her attractive.
She’s actually sent me a photo of her in a top of hers I said I liked. Wasn’t from her upload feed but it wasn’t a freshly taken photo either but in that photo she didn’t cover her face a bit but was definitely the person who she said she is
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She’s actually sent me a photo of her in a top of hers I said I liked. Wasn’t from her upload feed but it wasn’t a freshly taken photo either but in that photo she didn’t cover her face a bit but was definitely the person who she said she is
You're all set 👍
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Nah she hasn’t asked me for money or we haven’t even spoke about sex or anything like that. Just hobbies and stuff were into really, but mentally in treating it like that. The 80 miles away is just her University, she actually lives about 15 ish miles away and has family right by me so she said she’s always in my area.
If she has family local to you and is a regular visitor to the area, why not wait until she is there and see her then? I see no point in travelling 80 miles when, at some point soon, she will be in your area.
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Nah she hasn’t asked me for money or we haven’t even spoke about sex or anything like that. Just hobbies and stuff were into really, but mentally in treating it like that. The 80 miles away is just her University, she actually lives about 15 ish miles away and has family right by me so she said she’s always in my area.
You have the right attitude.

Good luck.

It's a fishing trip. If you catch anything; great. If not, it's no big deal.
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(Original post by Dunnig Kruger)
You have the right attitude.

Good luck.

It's a fishing trip. If you catch anything; great. If not, it's no big deal.
I kind of just asked her why doesn’t she want to Ft and she said basically she looks like a mess at the moment and wants to look a bit nicer because the hair place opens on April 12th and has started to send voice notes. So Id like to think i’m all good because that is a valid reason in my opinion.
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how many followers does she have?
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(Original post by jonathanツ)
yeah it sounds fishy

if we don't hear from you in a week we will know your either dead or stuck on a farm in italy
hahahahha im ded
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(Original post by Kerzen)
If she has family local to you and is a regular visitor to the area, why not wait until she is there and see her then? I see no point in travelling 80 miles when, at some point soon, she will be in your area.
I would be she’s at University atm and won’t be back till the end of May. So it would be a pretty long time, plus we can chill at her student accommodation because I live at home so it won’t really be idea m
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(Original post by Levi.-)
how many followers does she have?
28k
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I kind of just asked her why doesn’t she want to Ft and she said basically she looks like a mess at the moment and wants to look a bit nicer because the hair place opens on April 12th and has started to send voice notes. So Id like to think i’m all good because that is a valid reason in my opinion.
I'd say it's about 75 25 as to whether that's made up nonsense (75) or close enough to the truth (25).

All will be revealed in the due course of time...
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I would be she’s at University atm and won’t be back till the end of May. So it would be a pretty long time, plus we can chill at her student accommodation because I live at home so it won’t really be idea m
You could also come into contact with the virus and take it back home with you.
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ayo big ups for sliding to her then damn ahahahaha
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ayo big ups for sliding to her then damn ahahahaha
Yhhh exactly that’s why i’m concerned, sliding in a girls DMs who has that many followers never normally works
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Anonymous #7
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I don’t think it will last considering it’s long distanced too. Like good luck buddy.
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None of this sounds real to me, not to say you're the one spouting falsehoods but I suspect she is.
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It's a huge red flag that she doesn't want to facetime first before meeting.
I'd worry more about that than the celeb thing.
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I don’t think it will last considering it’s long distanced too. Like good luck buddy.
It’s not long distance that’s just where her university is, she actually lives much closer
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People buy their followers etc., lol it doesn’t mean much TBH.
I hope it all works out ! Keep us posted!
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