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Original post by Foo.mp3
Unfortunately these people don’t tend to take you seriously unless they have direct/indirect personal experience of such illness or you present yourself a certain way; I too was condescended to by the head of the medical practice at uni when I first became ill, the ******* had the nerve to actually chuckle at me when I said I had come hoping for a prognosis. If I had that experience again now he’d be knocked off his chair.. one way or the other! :mmm:

Even the ‘specialists’ are a bit behind the curve, certainly in the UK

Sorry to hear that :console: Still happy to help as noted in previous PMs

What position were you in when you had it taken?

We can all relate to that I’m sure, however there are many things we can do to improve symptoms and treatment options should be popping up before long :smile: One thing that is clear from the research is that acceptance/positive framing is associated with relatively mild symptoms. Easier said than done, and may sound wishy washy, but it is therefore important to be accepting of what we have and try to look to the positives in all situations

I’ve done ‘Lightening Process’ (LP), which is ‘Neuro-linguistic Programming’ (NLP) + ‘Cognitive Behavioural Therapy’ (CBT), and I encourage others to try these things and mindfulness based CBT (MCBT) in particular, as I am convinced that it has potential positive benefits for everyone (whether they have a chronic health condition or not)

Oral antibiotics?

Definitely change GPs, and ideally have an advocate (someone who knows you, a bit about the condition, is adult, and has got your back) attend with you when you register with a new one

Cool. Haven’t tried it but have found Taurine (another amino acid, associated with neurotransmission) helpful with central wind up. Will have to get hold of some of this stuff and give it a shot. Demand for protein synthesis in ME/CFS is particularly marked, which is why I advocate diets high in protein :smile:

Hopefully this has been explained to you but for anyone who’s wondering SSRI’s like Fluoxetine have the potential to aid chronic pain, improper regulation of the autonomic nervous system (essentially relating to circulatory abnormalities), and depressive symptoms, in ME/CFS. I don’t take any chemical medicines myself, but I know many people find them helpful, at least for a time

That’s the spirit! :smile:

Haha, yeah.. my advice to students has always been to be real about your health situation from the outset, and impress upon others the seriousness of the condition and the limitations it imposes on you, but obviously without banging on about it/coming across like a victim :nopity:


Thanks Foo,

I was sitting down when I had my BP taken, although physio took my resting BP the other day while I was lying on the bed and it was quite low. And yes they were oral antibiotics, its finally cleared up now.

Im currently trying a lactose free diet as this is something the dietician recommended, I actually like the lactose free milk better than normal milk so even if it doesn't make me feel any better I must just stick with it because it tastes nicer!

I keep getting what I can only really sort of describe as 'soft spots' in certain places on my body. Its like an area that feels really tender like a bad bruise only its not bruised and I know I haven't hit it on anything. I keep getting them on my lower spine, my ribs, near my collar bone,the outside of my thighs and the top part of my knees. Does anyone else experience anything similar to this?
Hi guys need some help please...:frown:

Long story cut short,I have been diagnosed with CFS since 2012 and have only come to terms and accepted it in August 2014.I was taking to Germany,for private treatment at Burn out diagnostic clinic and they found that I had alottttt of problems in my blood including mitonchondrial dysfunction and low thyroid production,autoimmune disase and leaky gut.

All that gave me some closure finally as to why I was feeling so weak and exhausted all the time.So I accepted that I have this illness and it will limit a lot of things I do.I applied to uni September 2014 regardless though because I needed an element of focus in life and I have been already forced to give up so many things in the past,and I knew if I didn't give uni a shot I'd feel more hopeless than I already feel.
I whent against the will of my councillors and parents advice,and applied.It was the best decision ever.

I have made amazing new friends,all the tutors are so lovely and understanding the course itself is amazing and I love the uni atmosphere.However, I have been only going about one or twice a week ,middle of November 2014 I had operation on my sinuses,and a viral infection on my skin due to eczema ,it's been sore all over my body and my face.Weapy,itchy and just so horrible.
Consequently I missed 1 n Half month of uni and haven't been in at all this year as I'm still recovering.
Iv missed two coursework deadlines and I'm abit behind in lecture notes.My parents are trying to force me to drop out and few family members are trying to talk me into it and saying "focus on getting better first etc etc".Currently,my skin has healed abit more and I am have begun phototherapy today so hopefully I won't be getting outbreaks anymore..which means my attendance should improve.

I am 20 years old now,and already a year behind because I was forced to take a gap year.It was totally unproductive and it drove me mad tbh,I got so depressed due to lack of routine and my family just now and again come to my room to check up on me,like I was their pet dog or something.i think my parents want me to drop out because they get worried when I'm not at home,but at the same time I need to have an element of life too,and not just be stuck at home..existing.but I feel like giving up now and just dropping out because everything is literally against me..but at the same time I still really want to stay and try pass first year..but will it be possible to do so?

Sorry for the lengthy incoherent paragraphs I always feel abit confused ever since the diagnosis ,but anyway I just don't know what to do..
Any help would GREATLY be appreciated.
Thanks



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Original post by Rumaanaa
Hi guys need some help please...:frown:

Long story cut short,I have been diagnosed with CFS since 2012 and have only come to terms and accepted it in August 2014.I was taking to Germany,for private treatment at Burn out diagnostic clinic and they found that I had alottttt of problems in my blood including mitonchondrial dysfunction and low thyroid production,autoimmune disase and leaky gut.

All that gave me some closure finally as to why I was feeling so weak and exhausted all the time.So I accepted that I have this illness and it will limit a lot of things I do.I applied to uni September 2014 regardless though because I needed an element of focus in life and I have been already forced to give up so many things in the past,and I knew if I didn't give uni a shot I'd feel more hopeless than I already feel.
I whent against the will of my councillors and parents advice,and applied.It was the best decision ever.

I have made amazing new friends,all the tutors are so lovely and understanding the course itself is amazing and I love the uni atmosphere.However, I have been only going about one or twice a week ,middle of November 2014 I had operation on my sinuses,and a viral infection on my skin due to eczema ,it's been sore all over my body and my face.Weapy,itchy and just so horrible.
Consequently I missed 1 n Half month of uni and haven't been in at all this year as I'm still recovering.
Iv missed two coursework deadlines and I'm abit behind in lecture notes.My parents are trying to force me to drop out and few family members are trying to talk me into it and saying "focus on getting better first etc etc".Currently,my skin has healed abit more and I am have begun phototherapy today so hopefully I won't be getting outbreaks anymore..which means my attendance should improve.

I am 20 years old now,and already a year behind because I was forced to take a gap year.It was totally unproductive and it drove me mad tbh,I got so depressed due to lack of routine and my family just now and again come to my room to check up on me,like I was their pet dog or something.i think my parents want me to drop out because they get worried when I'm not at home,but at the same time I need to have an element of life too,and not just be stuck at home..existing.but I feel like giving up now and just dropping out because everything is literally against me..but at the same time I still really want to stay and try pass first year..but will it be possible to do so?

Sorry for the lengthy incoherent paragraphs I always feel abit confused ever since the diagnosis ,but anyway I just don't know what to do..
Any help would GREATLY be appreciated.
Thanks



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Hi there,

I had my diagnosis in 2013 and Im in my first year at uni too so I know how you feel. First off, the decision has to be yours, don't let other people try and make decisions for you. Im sure if you talk to your tutors you will easily be able to get the missed work up to date in no time, they will understand your situation. If you really feel you can't do it and you need to drop out this year then don't be hard on yourself, at least you gave it a shot. You can always apply again for 2015 entry when your health is better, maybe somewhere closer to home? I am currently living at home as I am no way well enough to live in halls, although I have a small commute to make I feel this is actually much better for me. Trust me though, I know how the whole 'I can't do this' feels, I say it at least once a day! If you need someone to chat with please feel free to drop me a message :smile: x

Does anyone know of any good over the counter painkillers you can buy which are better than standard paracetamol/ibuprofen? My headaches and leg pain is horrendous at the moment, I am also getting terrible pain in one of my arms which is making me feel quite sick. I also have an appointment with the dietician next week and was wondering if I should ask for some tests? Ive not been able to keep red meat down since just before christmas and keep suffering with the really bad stomach pains :frown:
Original post by Foo.mp3
Yup. I included some related tips in my self-help protocol (Section 4, but really the whole thing is related, in an integrative sense)

ME/CFS can involve hypersomnia in its early stages, as can other conditions involving chronic fatigue (conflated with CFS)

They’re all very likely interrelated, aye (it’s rather complex integrative pathophysiology but take it from me, they are!)

That's really helpful, thank you! I haven't read through all of it yet but I will at some point- the breathing bit's particularly interesting being badly asthmatic, I've not heard some of that before.
Guys!We could all keep in touch via snapchat 😬?


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I keep getting what I can only really sort of describe as 'soft spots' in certain places on my body. Its like an area that feels really tender like a bad bruise only its not bruised and I know I haven't hit it on anything. I keep getting them on my lower spine, my ribs, near my collar bone,the outside of my thighs and the top part of my knees. Does anyone else experience anything similar to this?

I get these, particularly on my forearms. Sometimes they even come up like swollen welts - like I've bashed into something. Always very tender, they come up out of nowhere but they go away after a day or two.

Mentioned it to my specialist a few years ago but she didnt really have much to say on the matter.


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I get these, particularly on my forearms. Sometimes they even come up like swollen welts - like I've bashed into something. Always very tender, they come up out of nowhere but they go away after a day or two.

Mentioned it to my specialist a few years ago but she didnt really have much to say on the matter.


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Thanks, hmm well I will mention it to my consultant next week and see what she says.

Ive got some kind of hand paralysis going on here, Ive had nerve pain in my left arm for quite some time now due to an accident, it was a private physio who first found it but he never did anything about it, he said it was a trapped nerve in my neck. This nerve pain has been really horrible now for a while but I kept ignoring it seeing as no one has bothered to do anything about it before so I didn't see why it would be any different now, anyway in the last couple of weeks I've been finding it hard to move my fingers, I thought they were just stiff from the cold weather as this sometimes happens, but now Im getting periods where I can't actually feel them at all and I can't move them, this is slightly worrying as its my writing hand and it makes it very difficult to do things with only one arm :frown:

I went to the dietician last week and Ive finally started to put on a bit of weight! It was only a very small amount but I guess its a start.
How is everyone coping?i just feel so alone with this annoying condition and it's so difficult to keep up with uni and life in general...if anyone wants to be my buddy on snapchat ,just give me pm and we can complain together 😹😭 I literally have no one that can relate to this illness😭😭😭


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I have completely lost the ability to use and feel my left hand, it started last Tuesday morning when I was only the way to a hospital appointment for my CFS. I showed them at the hospital and they sent me home. My mum took me to the gp who sent me for an emergency mri of my neck which I had done on Friday but the results came back clear. I am now waiting for an appointment with a specialist hand surgeon but I could be waiting a month.

Im so fed up, I can't do anything myself, I can't even go to uni so Im getting more behind with my work. Im so tired too from the effort of trying to do everything one handed :frown:
Original post by Foo.mp3
I can relate to that, my health really started to go down hill in my A2 year (went undiagnosed for a couple of years), and even though I didn't have my acute onset event until the following year at uni, I found it toughest trying to do A2 levels compared with e.g. struggling through uni. At least at uni you tend to have fewer contact hours on most courses, and much more flexibility regarding time planning, as well as less time/energy draining commuting etc if you're lucky enough to live on campus :smile:

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I had some kind of virus around my AS exams which started it all off for me, so A2 was the first time (seeing as I wasn't in school for most of the last half term of year 12) I really noticed it. It's very encouraging about the uni thing though, thank you, although physics I think has quite a lot of contact hours still which could be an issue for me.

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I should hope so, certainly worth trying! :smile: (ideally over the phone I would say)

As it happened they said I didn't need an audition, cancelled the admissions test and gave me an unconditional offer before the interview so I'm happy! I have an interview for somewhere else in a couple of days though so your advice is very useful, thank you (feel like I'm saying that a lot this post but still :tongue:).

Edit: Tried to rep but I've done it too recently apparently :grumble:
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Getting upset as I keep failing to hand in my essays on time.

I just got diagnosed with IBS as well and that seems to have set my CFS off worse than usual. Just one big foggy, sleepy mess
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Getting upset as I keep failing to hand in my essays on time.

I just got diagnosed with IBS as well and that seems to have set my CFS off worse than usual. Just one big foggy, sleepy mess


Hey,

you shouldn't feel bad about not being able to hand in essays on time, its not your fault and your tutors should be supporting you. Worrying about it will just make you feel worse and could definitely trigger your IBS, I understand how you feel though, Im at uni too xx
Hey,is anyone else registered with a dietician here ? I wanna ask my doc to register me with one but iknow she's gonna be fussy and ask why so I made a few reasons ,please can anyone let me know if itl be enough?
My main reasons are that I 1)I have dairy allergy already..but I avoid these foods ,yet my skin gets worse(eczema),which makes my CFS worse also..
2)I have really bad bloating and cramping out the blue when and I can't seem to identifiy which food it is
3)and also in general I'm Always adding new supplements and changing my diet around so it'd be reassuring to have a dietician who I can go to for advise...

Will this be enough?

Thanks!&hope your all doing fine xxx


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Hey,is anyone else registered with a dietician here ? I wanna ask my doc to register me with one but iknow she's gonna be fussy and ask why so I made a few reasons ,please can anyone let me know if itl be enough?
My main reasons are that I 1)I have dairy allergy already..but I avoid these foods ,yet my skin gets worse(eczema),which makes my CFS worse also..
2)I have really bad bloating and cramping out the blue when and I can't seem to identifiy which food it is
3)and also in general I'm Always adding new supplements and changing my diet around so it'd be reassuring to have a dietician who I can go to for advise...

Will this be enough?

Thanks!&hope your all doing fine xxx


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I'm thinking of doing that too and or a nutritionist :wink: I am hardly eating and has next to no appetite yet my weight has stayed the same..if not a bit heavier bcos of the tablets I've been on (antids and such)! good luck and hope you find someone to help you! I have eczema and gluten & dairy intolerance I think. I've cut out dairy as best I can to help but I don't think it's made much of a different tbh. I'm on supplements too so maybe the new diet and then will help and in the interim keeping a food diary :smile:


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This time last year I couldn't push my own wheelchair because of CFS. Up until July 2014, I had severe chronic fatigue syndrome for 5 1/2 years, to the point where I was too weak to walk, move, eat or talk. I have a handful of memories from the last 5 years.

But, my body is now cooperating and I am in full recovery. I am doing marital arts, at school 3/4 - full time and around 70-80% on the scale.

If anyone wants or needs any advice, please, let me know. I know how cruel this illness is and I am happy to offer any and all support.
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There's a lot more you can do about that imo, but it does take training/perseverance (learning to filter, practising mindfulness, CBT type coaching yourself out of vigilance/concentration/related physiological factors like hyperventilation/non-diaphragmatic breathing)

If you haven't see it already, you may find this to be even more helpful info (granted there's a lot to take in but it's worth a read). I also consult PWME privately, as a (presently unaccredited, if experienced/well read) integrative health & wellness coach, so if you're (ever) in the London area feel free to look me up (PM for info)

You should allow yourself to doze in those circumstances for sure. I'm staunchly against sleeping in the day as optional/out of boredom etc, but where unavoidable I believe we really have to listen to our bodies

Not uncommon. I've had hypoglycaemic readings in the AM. The problem is we have metabolic dysfunctions that tend to lead to boom-bust gycaemic swing-states, so the objective is low carb intake and blood glucose smoothing. In the context of IBS prevalence in 92% of cases this means 'little and often', and ideally frontloading carbs earlier in the day (bit tricky if, like me, your appetite is greatest later in the day)

When I'm being good I tend only to have e.g. broccoli/cauli at dinner time, with some meat (protein should form the bulk of our meals really). The body finds it a bit intense at first but once you have shifted dietary habits, after a while it readjusts and you can get by on almost no carbs at all (albeit with slightly reduced physical energy). I find supplementing with a small amount of D-ribose, taken frequently throughout the day, somewhat beneficial in countering energy issues

Time of day, recent dietary habits, and periodic hormonal disturbance were probably factors. I've also had perfectly normal blood sugar readings in the past


Alrighty thanks, I'll have a look into those and bookmark that page as well :smile: I'm pretty much never in London these days, but never know when and where I'll end up :biggrin:

Yeah I was just tested for diabetes really, which came back negative but my GP acknowledged that a lot of people with ME experience hypo episodes and gave me a bit of advice, which is practically the same thing you said about eating carbs little and often and avoiding too many simple carbs as these can cause big spikes and then drops in blood levels. All sort of stuff I'd knew the basics on anyway as someone who does weight training and has a lot of focus on the diet side of things, but I've pretty much learned that if I'm having a "bad day" then any sort of physical activity is likely to cause me to use up carbs like a mofo and probably go hypo if I push it too far, which on those days doesn't take much at all :biggrin:

A question I get asked a lot actually (been lifting a couple of years now so it's become obvious just by looking at me), is how can I keep up the weight training but not manage to do other things like go for a jog or whatever. Think it's the nature of the exercise really - short burst of activity, rest, short burst of activity, rest and so on. I watched a video a while ago that I'll have to see if I can dig up, in which some medical professional gave a presentation on exercise and ME, in which he stated that this kind of anaerobic activity is what ME patients should be looking for in any exercise program (obviously to varying degrees of intensity depending on the patient), and talked about how any kind of aerobic/cardiovascular/oxygen-debt based exercise is most often an ME patient's worst enemy.
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Bit random, but does anyone here have episodes where they feel faint or have a very slow heart rate when lying down?

I get this when I've had a rough few days ME wise, like this past week. Right now it's 3am and I am really tired but I can't sleep because every time I start to drift off it feels like I'm going to pass out and my heart starts thumping really slowly and loudly. I feel like I have to move to get myself to snap out of it.

I've taken my pulse a few times when I have these episodes and I've had a heart rate of around 50bpm. Which puts me in the 'athlete range' despite having fairly poor/average fitness at the moment.

It feels kind of like having low blood sugar but I don't think it's that as I've eaten a banana, bit of muesli but the feeling doesn't go away. Also it often occurs with sleep paralysis.

Is this worth getting checked out? I'm kind of sick of being tested for things and having tests always coming back negative. Maybe I'm just a hypochondriac. Reading back through this post I definitely sound like one :tongue:


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Bit random, but does anyone here have episodes where they feel faint or have a very slow heart rate when lying down?

I get this when I've had a rough few days ME wise, like this past week. Right now it's 3am and I am really tired but I can't sleep because every time I start to drift off it feels like I'm going to pass out and my heart starts thumping really slowly and loudly. I feel like I have to move to get myself to snap out of it.

I've taken my pulse a few times when I have these episodes and I've had a heart rate of around 50bpm. Which puts me in the 'athlete range' despite having fairly poor/average fitness at the moment.

It feels kind of like having low blood sugar but I don't think it's that as I've eaten a banana, bit of muesli but the feeling doesn't go away. Also it often occurs with sleep paralysis.

Is this worth getting checked out? I'm kind of sick of being tested for things and having tests always coming back negative. Maybe I'm just a hypochondriac. Reading back through this post I definitely sound like one :tongue:


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Yea! That sounds like me at my worst a year ago. After seeing my neurologist she's putting down to having a thing called a tilt test which is testing me for a condition called PoTS.
I felt and had those symptoms for an age and sometimes feel exactly the same now!
Ask to be referred by your GP! I hope you get answers - there's nothing worse to having symptoms and not know what to do about them :frown: best of luck and hugs x


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Thanks quiet one, can't quote you as I'm on my phone but it's reassuring to know I'm not alone! I got to sleep at around 6.30 in the end, total disaster of a night ><

I've read about POTS but didn't think the symptoms applied to me as I don't get them on standing up, just on lying down! And my heart seems to go too slow rather than too fast. It feels absolutely horrible, like I can feel the my pulse all over my body- in my face and feet and hands. It kind of gives me the urge to cry and gag too which is just so odd :/

Might ask a GP about it but I can just imagine sounding like a total weirdo trying to explain what happens. I only get it rarely when I'm very fatigued so I don't think any kind of 24 hour monitoring would pick up my symptoms unless I was in the middle of a really bad episode. Usually when my pulse and BP are taken in the surgery they're absolutely fine too.


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