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How to meet and get confident around guys?

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ok so I know this sounds pathetic but everyone I know right now seems to be in a relationship whilst I have nobody. I really want to meet some new guys (I am a girl) outside of school, but how could I do this? I would prefer to meet out of school as I have a somewhat geeky reputation in school. Also, how so I then become confident around them?
I'm 16 so nightclubs etc are almost out of the question (though I could try and slip into some :p:

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thanks in advance

Reply 1

Walkin'Butterfly

14

Hmmmmm........if the only reason you want a relationship is because all your friends are in them then you shouldnt. Just relax and be yourself. Your time will come

Reply 2

mollymustard

14

I would say its best not to go out their hunting for a relationship as these things tend to happen when you are looking for it the least.
Get involved with things outside of school, perhaps join a drama group or a sports group to boost your confidence.

Practice makes perfect, and once you are comfortable around a few different guys you will feel relaxed.
Just be yourself too, it will make things much less awkward.

Reply 3

anna_spanner89

tbh...you'll meet someone when you least expect it, have fun with your friends- get out shopping, men at bus stops..clubs..whatever. Enjoy and learn to love yourself and someone will come along

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

OP

it's not just because my friends are in relationships - I just really want one... selfish though it may seem

Reply 5

Hula129

15

mollymustard

I would say its best not to go out their hunting for a relationship as these things tend to happen when you are looking for it the least.
Get involved with things outside of school, perhaps join a drama group or a sports group to boost your confidence.

Practice makes perfect, and once you are comfortable around a few different guys you will feel relaxed.
Just be yourself too, it will make things much less awkward.

Will happen when the time is right.... :smile:

x

Reply 6

cadaeibfeceh

17

Well....only thing I can recommend is online, which is how I found my last (and only) girlfriend, and it was great for 5 months! And now I feel like you :/

*sympathy hugs*

Reply 7

Davezk

12

At least you don't have to do the chasing, they'll come to you I guess which is why the 'your time will come' only really refers to girls.

Reply 8

North

Friend's boyfriends friends!

Reply 9

StotheL

Davezk

At least you don't have to do the chasing, they'll come to you I guess which is why the 'your time will come' only really refers to girls.

Surely it's fun chasing girls though, well when there's a good chase and you get the girl in the end? A good chase is always fun! :rolleyes:

Reply 10

Davezk

12

StotheL

Surely it's fun chasing girls though, well when there's a good chase and you get the girl in the end? A good chase is always fun! :rolleyes:

I'm not going to do all the chasing, the girl should put a bit of effort in too.

Besides, on what grounds are you saying all this?

Reply 11

Anonymous Boy

You seem to seek for a partner because everyone else is. Although, if what you say is genuine, all you can do is get out there and talk to them. Practice makes perfect regardless of your 'reputation' but also try talking to new people as friends which will boost that confidence and then start to talk to people. Places of any social meeting place will be suitable enough.

Good luck and kind regards,
Fox

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