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Girls, if you were sleeping....

Bludclotzz

late at night with your bf and he gets a text from a girl, would you be suspicious/find it weird ?

Reply 1

emma8702

9

Depends who she was. I sometimes get texts from guy friends late at night when they're drunk, but it's nothing weird.

Reply 2

Impreza18

7

How would you know he got a text if you were sleeping?

Reply 3

ashy

17

Not really. She's allowed to have friends, you know...

Reply 4

shorty.loves.angels

16

Depends who and what it said.

My bf got a text from his ex sayin 'Hi sexy how are you?' But to be fair, she only tries to keep in touch because she's moved back to her parents, who my bf is friends with and they live near him so she's seen him and decided to text him. But in fairness she's just broke up from her wife lol so I don't know how confused she actually is! I told him to tell her to **** off, don't wana have to put up with things like that tbh.

Reply 5

psychocustard

18

I'd be more annoyed that his phone had woken me up. Seeing as my boyfriend's female quota is me, a lesbian, and a girl who jumps from relationship to relationship whilst treating him like crap... I think I'm safe.

Reply 6

Melting Sugar.

14

ashy

Not really. She's allowed to have friends, you know...

^

This

Paranoid much?

Reply 7

Sver

not applicable, Iv been really clever and have no female friends or no girlfriends

Reply 8

Spanghew

11

No - that's not suspicious.

Maybe it starts getting suspicious if he won't tell you who it was or what they were saying, but just getting texts from friends is perfectly resonable.

Reply 9

Bludclotzz

OP

Spanghew

No - that's not suspicious.

Maybe it starts getting suspicious if he won't tell you who it was or what they were saying, but just getting texts from friends is perfectly resonable.

but why would the girl want to know ? if she think its nothing suspicious

Reply 10

Malkmus

11

Anyone who does has a few issues.

Reply 11

Irrelevance

16

No. Now carry on sex-texting, she won't suspect a thing. :top:

Reply 12

jodie_lee

If it was a genuine female friend, then no.

As it happens, my boyfriend only has one of those, he tended to be a more "sleep with them and bugger them off" and if it was them I'd be a bit like, what does she want.

Reply 13

Spanghew

11

Bludclotzz

but why would the girl want to know ? if she think its nothing suspicious

If my significant other gets a text/call i the middle of the night, I always ask who it was out of interest. Also, I want to know who woke me up, so I can unleash my sleepy fury on them the next day.

Reply 14

Cultivated

2

How would one even know who the text was from? You'd read what's on his phone? :lolwut:

I wouldn't care.

Reply 15

Buster_Bunny

9

I wud only find it weird if he was texting her all night and then kept it from me.

Reply 16

Mazija

depends who and what it says.

Reply 17

lnx

psychocustard

I'd be more annoyed that his phone had woken me up. Seeing as my boyfriend's female quota is me, a lesbian, and a girl who jumps from relationship to relationship whilst treating him like crap... I think I'm safe.