This is by far and large the busiest forum on TSR, so I'm sure you've all seen and replied to a thread like this many a time.
Anyway, here is my predicament.
My girlfriend broke up with me 3 months ago. She gave me reasons such as not wanting a boyfriend anymore and finally just 'being with her friends', because in September they all start at university. I also heard from a friend of mine that she had told people I was 'too nice'.
It might be worthwhile saying that she asked me a couple of months before we broke up if I would be more forward in terms of sexual activities, aside of just normal intercourse. I did heed her advice and did do more things, but there were limited opportunities because of parents etc. I had to rely on the time when I picked her up from college and brought her to mine and made her lunch.
Onwards...
I tried to accept her decision, even if I didn't accept her reasons - I thought they were quite mundane and invalid.
I had booked tickets months before we broke up to take her to see one of her favourite female singers but because of the awkwardness and one or two heated exchanges, she pulled out of going about 15 minutes before I was due to pick her up. This hurt like a kick in the balls, in fact she might as well have taken a big run up and booted me in the jewels. I was very angry, but decided to forgive and forget (almost immediately, because i'm soft) and so that was that.
Apparently she had been told by 'someone' that I was refusing to speak to her which was... astounding to hear. Why would I be refusing to talk to the girl I was still in love with?
Two weeks ago she got back from her holiday in Zante. This is where I totally lost it. She said she did not want to 'emotionally destroy me' but when pictures came up of her kissing over the week around 5 different boys (probably even more), well, she had done. How did she expect me to feel when she knew I was, and arguably still are, devoted to her? "I don't want a boyfriend because I just want to be with my friends yet I'll kiss as many other lads as my lips will take."
I deleted her from Facebook and dumped all the things she made me expressing her love (only 3 months previously) for me on her doorstep.
This is where my regret comes in. I completely overreacted. Completely.
Now that was long-winded but there is no point omitting important details.
Lets cut to the crack.
I am so willing to express my deep regret and apologise for how I reacted and to forgive and forget to try and make it work again.
BUT:
How meaningful is an apology these days?
Even if getting back together is an impossibility, is is possible to settle our differences and become friends again?
Has anyone got back together with an ex and how did you go about doing it?
And finally, did it last?
Many thanks.