Additionally, my other reasons are
Waiting for sex grows your self-respect, and yourrespect for your person,
The honour with which you eventually receive thegift of sex.By waiting, you practise depriving yourself ofwhat you want now (sex) , so that you can have what you want most (the best sex(in marriage)), which increases your self-control.1
If you wait until marriage to have sex, contraceptionis never an issue, and there is never an unwanted pregnancy, because you arehaving sex when you are ready for it to fulfil its purpose, when, like thefather son and holy spirit exploded with love and had to make something to love(us), two people explode with love and want to make something out of the loveto show the love, to bless with the love. In evolutionary terms, sex isfunctional it is an action with an outcome. If (stats x%) are usingcontraception to stop this outcome, surely there is some kind of distortion inthe very thesis of sex, and how separated sexual intercourse has become, fromsexual reproduction. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not against contraception, I thinkcontraception is a convenient tool in the context of family planning, howeverin the same way that the bulimic tendency to stop the natural process ofdigestion by eating (action) and inhibiting the outcome (digestion) by purging andthis triggers the recognition of a problem in our minds, the selectiveinhibition of contraception, where we stop the natural process of reproductionby having sex (action) and inhibiting the outcome, surely, similarly, there isa problem. This thesis brings forth the belief that a couple should only havesex if and when they are ready to have a child, and in the same way, only usecontraception after this point. If you’re contemplating having sex with yourpartner, ask yourself: Am I ready to have a baby? If not- Don’t have sex. Evenwith contraception there is a 3% chance of conception. If so- Go ahead- have sex.