Too ugly to get a girlfriend, don't know what to do, need advice.

I'm not putting him down.

He's clearly not helping himself by not approaching women. He says online and speed dating doesn't work for him, so he should approach females. He clearly doesn't and he is into his 29th year, what else can he do?

In my opinion, approaching females would given him better results.

A few won't, however saying a lot don't want to have kids or to marry is just a big exaggeration. I know many many females dating back to junior, high school, college, uni and most of them have had kids. Hence you see status's such as "full time mommy". I have many female friends and they want to marry.

I used to be on POF and 8/10 profiles of these beautiful white females are well educated, with degree's, masters, they are teachers, managers, work in accounting, finance, management etc.

Hence I said, I doubt they would go for an MMA fighter. I could be wrong.

Go to the Phillipines, east Europe and you'll get a beautiful girlfriend there mate. Your confidence will sky rocket too.

Sleeping with 30 escorts, what the hell dude women still faze you after that lol.

You're not confident, a confident man especially at your age would go to the bars to meet women, approach women.

You're not ugly, maybe your personality is the way?

I agree with the dude, you're setting your standards to high mate and you need to re-think about the women you want.

"Standards too high". In other words, I'm too ugly for these women.

Wouldn't mind going to Eastern Europe for a gf/wife. Eastern European women are gorgeous. I've slept with a lot of them lol.

People have told you that you're not ugly, because you're not ugly. You're in good shape and you even look pretty classy and your friends seem to like you. You seem very macho, so I'm surprised women don't like you.

If you decide to do one of those Eastern European mail order bride things like the other guy suggested, you'll probably be one of the most attractive guys there.

I think what you can take from this is that success in life is random and is based almost entirely on luck. There's only so much you can do to increase your odds, the rest is determined by fate.

What ethnicity are you? You look very ambiguous.

ugly wherrrr? youre too critical of yourself

Why do you say that???

i saw your fb

Op, girls aren't generally fans of guys who play the victim. If you go around with this 'woe is me i cant get a girlfriend' schtick you're only going to get girls with weird maternal instincts or howlers.

In the nicest way possible- you're not bad looking but you're not very well presented. Your suit is not a great fit and your shoes look a bit cheap. Plus nothing is on 'trend' or particularly stylish.

You'd be amazed at the difference that a well fitting suit, nice shoes and a haircut can make.

One of the first things I look at when I meet a guy in a bar is his shoes. Yours look like something a school leaver would wear to his first admin job. Get a nice pair of brogues or a pair of docs if you need a steel toe for work.

I do have suits and good clothes, haven't taken any pics with them.
When I work in clubs, I'm always very smartly dressed. Women still don't approach me, chat to me, no eye contact. It's like I'm invisible lol.

Also, if a guy is ugly, he's ugly. You could put him in an Armani suit, give him the best haircut. If he doesn't have good features, he's just going to be an ugly man in a nice suit. For example, someone like Wayne Rooney could be wearing the best clothes, he's still an ugly man. Someone like David Beckham or Brad Pitt could dress like a hobo. They would still look good, cos they have good features and face structure.

But someone like Wayne Rooney who has a face like a bulldog, can dress and groom well, can walk into a room with confidence and a bit of swag and could possibly be a really good laugh.

You're hung up on looks- everyone is telling you it's not about looks.

Why would you not put a pic of you @ your best on FB then? And there's a difference between being smartly dressed like your mother dressed you and having some style.

Maybe book in to see a personal shopper if this is something that you struggle with.

But again- it's not looks. You can charm women in a million different ways and looks is only one of them.

I don't know about anyone else but if a guy told me he watches anime, I really wouldn't be interested. Also, with the fighting job too. I don't know but that's just my opinion as a female - and you're not ugly!!