Too ugly to get a girlfriend, don't know what to do, need advice.

Working hard, saving money, working in nightclubs, go out and about more often. Visiting central London regularly, joined tinder, dating sites.

Right so let's say you meet a nice girl when you go out. What do you do?

You've just said that I'm average looking. Average is slightly above ugly. So surgery is needed to make myself look good.

Converse, ask for her number. That is how my friends got their gf's.

800 posts of people telling you otherwise. But yeah- go ahead get all the surgery.

This is just a car crash.

You can't make that assessment, you can only judge when you see the results.

The reason you don't have a girlfriend is because you just look for attention.

The only way to improve your confidence is through experience.

Are you genuinely being serious? The reason you don't have a girlfriend is because you just look for attention.

I don't know about anyone else but if a guy told me he watches anime, I really wouldn't be interested. Also, with the fighting job too. I don't know but that's just my opinion as a female - and you're not ugly!!

I knew someone was going to say Zac Efron 😂 But no, he wouldn't be someone I'd want to grow old with because we wouldn't have the same interests, it would be very boring

Is this serious? xDDDD You'd let a guy go because he watches anime? You'll judge his entire personality??? Everything he could possibly be interested in? You'll ignore the fact that he may be the most interesting person on the planet AND watches anime??? You'll ignore the fact that anime may not even be as dogshit or boring as you think?? You'll ignore all of that because "I dont like anime"???

I don't know if you're awfully judgmental or just plain narrow sighted but wow.....I doubt you've even watched a single episode of a single anime too...but wow....what a person.

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And this entire thread is a mass of idiocy.

The OP's perspective is that girlfriend's come to good looking guys and good looking guys only.

Let's even ignore the fact that almost everyone has said he isn't ugly.
Let's even ignore the fact that the OP is reeking of self-pity and desperation.
Let's even ignore the fact that the OP is generalizing every single female.


I have one question for the OP. Ignoring your looks, taking into account your personality, outlook on life, wealth, interests, humour, fitness, job, and ignoring everything above.

Do you have the kind of traits you would look for in a partner?

Now let's ADD IN the fact that you're an average looking guy who is exuding an aura of self-pity and worthlessness. Let's add in the fact that you approach females expecting to fail.

Do you want a girl like that? Do you want a girl with all of your traits? The ones you can and can't change?

Don't expect anyone to settle for what you wouldn't settle for.

Stop being so goddamned whiny. You are literally the cause of your own problem. The only thing that sets you apart from any male I have ever met, from any male on this site is how whiny you're being.

You have had 2 years of constant, consistent advice.

You have been told over and over what girls look for.

You have been told over and over you aren't ugly.

You've been told over and over that you need to talk to girls, and goddamit I mean talk to them. I can only think of one scenario in my life where a girl liked me because of my looks and not my personality.

My girlfriend is gorgeous and I'm average. Slightly above average if I'm being perfectly honest. But my girlfriend is the type of girl that gets dozens of dm's after posting a normal selfie on instagram. Everyone has said she's too good for me, but everyone has been referring to looks.

I'm not gloating, but I'm not pushing you down either. Going up to a girl and randomly asking for her number? Stupid. She knows any and everything you could possibly try.

I'm not asking you to try and be some James Bond kinda slick, conversationalist either.

Just be bloody down to earth. Don't try to flirt with her, it won't work. Don't try to woo her or make her attracted to you. Just have a normal conversati -

Wait.

Do you have any female friends?

Have you ever talked to a female without trying to stick your dick in them?

Do you have ANY relationship, with a female, that is not compulsory?

If you can't walk...why are you trying to run?

No I think fighting is fine but I just don't think I'd be interested in someone that does it as a career instead of a hobby.

But at the end of the day it's about your personality and who you are as a person - I'm just saying from my perspective as a female but this would be completely different for another female. Maybe I'm just really judgemental. 😂

My girlfriend is gorgeous and I'm average. Slightly above average if I'm being perfectly honest. But my girlfriend is the type of girl that gets dozens of dm's after posting a normal selfie on instagram. Everyone has said she's too good for me, but everyone has been referring to looks.

Is this serious? xDDDD You'd let a guy go because he watches anime? You'll judge his entire personality??? Everything he could possibly be interested in? You'll ignore the fact that he may be the most interesting person on the planet AND watches anime??? You'll ignore the fact that anime may not even be as dogshit or boring as you think?? You'll ignore all of that because "I dont like anime"???

I don't know if you're awfully judgmental or just plain narrow sighted but wow.....I doubt you've even watched a single episode of a single anime too...but wow....what a person.

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And this entire thread is a mass of idiocy.

The OP's perspective is that girlfriend's come to good looking guys and good looking guys only.

Let's even ignore the fact that almost everyone has said he isn't ugly.
Let's even ignore the fact that the OP is reeking of self-pity and desperation.
Let's even ignore the fact that the OP is generalizing every single female.


I have one question for the OP. Ignoring your looks, taking into account your personality, outlook on life, wealth, interests, humour, fitness, job, and ignoring everything above.

Do you have the kind of traits you would look for in a partner?

Now let's ADD IN the fact that you're an average looking guy who is exuding an aura of self-pity and worthlessness. Let's add in the fact that you approach females expecting to fail.

Do you want a girl like that? Do you want a girl with all of your traits? The ones you can and can't change?

Don't expect anyone to settle for what you wouldn't settle for.

Stop being so goddamned whiny. You are literally the cause of your own problem. The only thing that sets you apart from any male I have ever met, from any male on this site is how whiny you're being.

You have had 2 years of constant, consistent advice.

You have been told over and over what girls look for.

You have been told over and over you aren't ugly.

You've been told over and over that you need to talk to girls, and goddamit I mean talk to them. I can only think of one scenario in my life where a girl liked me because of my looks and not my personality.

My girlfriend is gorgeous and I'm average. Slightly above average if I'm being perfectly honest. But my girlfriend is the type of girl that gets dozens of dm's after posting a normal selfie on instagram. Everyone has said she's too good for me, but everyone has been referring to looks.

I'm not gloating, but I'm not pushing you down either. Going up to a girl and randomly asking for her number? Stupid. She knows any and everything you could possibly try.

I'm not asking you to try and be some James Bond kinda slick, conversationalist either.

Just be bloody down to earth. Don't try to flirt with her, it won't work. Don't try to woo her or make her attracted to you. Just have a normal conversati -

Wait.

Do you have any female friends?

Have you ever talked to a female without trying to stick your dick in them?

Do you have ANY relationship, with a female, that is not compulsory?

If you can't walk...why are you trying to run?

Is this serious? xDDDD You'd let a guy go because he watches anime? You'll judge his entire personality??? Everything he could possibly be interested in? You'll ignore the fact that he may be the most interesting person on the planet AND watches anime??? You'll ignore the fact that anime may not even be as dogshit or boring as you think?? You'll ignore all of that because "I dont like anime"???

I don't know if you're awfully judgmental or just plain narrow sighted but wow.....I doubt you've even watched a single episode of a single anime too...but wow....what a person.

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And this entire thread is a mass of idiocy.

The OP's perspective is that girlfriend's come to good looking guys and good looking guys only.

Let's even ignore the fact that almost everyone has said he isn't ugly.
Let's even ignore the fact that the OP is reeking of self-pity and desperation.
Let's even ignore the fact that the OP is generalizing every single female.


I have one question for the OP. Ignoring your looks, taking into account your personality, outlook on life, wealth, interests, humour, fitness, job, and ignoring everything above.

Do you have the kind of traits you would look for in a partner?

Now let's ADD IN the fact that you're an average looking guy who is exuding an aura of self-pity and worthlessness. Let's add in the fact that you approach females expecting to fail.

Do you want a girl like that? Do you want a girl with all of your traits? The ones you can and can't change?

Don't expect anyone to settle for what you wouldn't settle for.

Stop being so goddamned whiny. You are literally the cause of your own problem. The only thing that sets you apart from any male I have ever met, from any male on this site is how whiny you're being.

You have had 2 years of constant, consistent advice.

You have been told over and over what girls look for.

You have been told over and over you aren't ugly.

You've been told over and over that you need to talk to girls, and goddamit I mean talk to them. I can only think of one scenario in my life where a girl liked me because of my looks and not my personality.

My girlfriend is gorgeous and I'm average. Slightly above average if I'm being perfectly honest. But my girlfriend is the type of girl that gets dozens of dm's after posting a normal selfie on instagram. Everyone has said she's too good for me, but everyone has been referring to looks.

I'm not gloating, but I'm not pushing you down either. Going up to a girl and randomly asking for her number? Stupid. She knows any and everything you could possibly try.

I'm not asking you to try and be some James Bond kinda slick, conversationalist either.

Just be bloody down to earth. Don't try to flirt with her, it won't work. Don't try to woo her or make her attracted to you. Just have a normal conversati -

Wait.

Do you have any female friends?

Have you ever talked to a female without trying to stick your dick in them?

Do you have ANY relationship, with a female, that is not compulsory?

If you can't walk...why are you trying to run?