Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a year and it’s been fine, nothings gone wrong. And right now, it’s been 3 weeks and I can’t have his **** in me without it hurting. I’ve tried inserting a finger and it feels inflamed, very sore and hurts when touched. I don’t think it’s an STI because we haven’t had sex with anyone but eachother but it could be an infection, maybe he was too rough and it got infected? I’m in a situation where it’s hard for me to go to the Gp or see a doctor because my parents don’t know about us, so it’s very tricky to get some help, but what can I do? I want to be able to have sex again and I don’t want it to hurt loke that when I’ve done it countless numbers of times without hurting. I’m 17 if that makes any difference x