this has reminded me why i don't like relationships!
blah.. anyway background; boyfriend for 2 years. we get on so well, have so much in common. 1st september we went to spain for a week together, and we were both dreading him going to uni because we knew that we would miss each other a lot and wouldn't be able to see each other too much. the good thing is that he has gone to a uni close to where we live anyway, so i could see him more regularly than if he moved away.
the night before he started uni, i got him a load of stationary and food to take with him and he was so very upset at going, and started being quite emotional and kept telling me how much he needed me and was glad that he had me.
during 'freshers' week, he wanted me to stay with him at the uni, so i did. i stayed over on the first 4 nights because he wanted me to, and took him out when everyone else went drinking and clubbing.
anyway, the one day, totally out of the blue, he says 'oh, i want a break because you are too jealous and have been around too much'. i don't see how he can say i've been around too much when he was the one who wanted me to stay in the first place. the jealousy thing, yeah ok, there are a lot of pretty girls on his corridor so what am i supposed to do? i think i have the right to be a little jealous..
anyway, i didn't want a break. we had to have one before because he wanted to spend time with me and then got sick of me.. he did that to me over christmas and it was the worst christmas ever. so, instead of saying 'ok, we will jsut see each other less' he decides he wants to break up for good.
i don't know whether uni has totally changed him in, what, 3 weeks, but i'm struggling to understand the logic behind this seen as we were so close when he started uni, and now he doesn't want to know me. oh, he does want to be friends though because i'm 'a nice person'.
has anyone got any views or had something similar happen? i love my boyfriend dearly and we swore that we would get through uni because i thought and i'm guessing he thought we were in love.. but this sucks.