Scared of the relationship thing and even kissing?!?

So I'm 17 (nearly 18) and I'm so scared of kissing someone. I have come close to getting into a relationship but then I think about the fact that I will have to kiss them which will lead on...
I don't know why, Im just scared I will do it wrong or something idk, all my friends have boyfriends and I seem to be the only one in this situation
Please help

Reply 1

futbol

18

Go out get smashed and find some desperate lads to practise with :wink:

B4NT3R

Reply 2

inachigeek21

12

Well, intimacy does require patience so one shall be in absolute certainty that they would want to pursue and express their affection.
What you perceive in your environment shall not influence your mind into worrying about your fear of intimacy(?)
Decide (in your own time of course) of what time you think is correct for commitment and strong intimacy, as no influences from mass media or your surroundings shall not question your state and quality of intimacy.

Reply 3

Laomedeia

21

Original post by inachigeek21

Well, intimacy does require patience so one shall be in absolute certainty that they would want to pursue and express their affection.
What you perceive in your environment shall not influence your mind into worrying about your fear of intimacy(?)
Decide (in your own time of course) of what time you think is correct for commitment and strong intimacy, as no influences from mass media or your surroundings shall not question your state and quality of intimacy.

Roughly translated:

Well, intimacy is supposed to take a long time so by the time you get laid, you will know whether you want it or not.
The kind of schit that other people get up to should not influence how you think about intimacy which in this case would be a good rogering.
You should make up your mind at some point (although theres no rush) when you feel like a good rogering. Dont to too focused on what you see in porn movies or saucy stuff on the internet. This has no bearing on your love life so dont feel the need to imitate that randy rubbish.

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