How do I get over this girl?

What the **** is with the pre-moderation?

What do you mean?

You know how to get over her. We've been telling you for two years.

She sounds like a bitch. Focus on your work and get out of there as quickly as possible.

My 3 year relationship ended 3.5 months ago. I know how you feel but you have to control your feelings, just remember, its just chemicals in the brain. You can control it, I'm sure you'll meet someone 10 times better. Just accept what happened you can't undo it, don't feel guilty. Just concentrate on your uni work, go to the gym or something, or maybe just meet up with friends. Hopefully that helps somewhat, I currently suck at giving advice in this but its better than nothing.

This is mind blowing stuff.

Keep making more threads like these.

It has finally happened and I am really struggling with this. Honestly I have been trying to do my work for the past 4hrs and I just cannot do more than 5 minutes without thinking of her and then feeling upset.

It's affecting me so much. I am heartbroken.

Tbh I think you completely deserve it.

HOWEVER, I'm going to give you advice on this, yet again. If you choose to ignore it this time then that's your choice but you'll be left feeling this way for a very long time.

1. Deliberately focus on other things. Every time you catch yourself thinking about her, stop and make a conscious effort to think about something else.

2. Go out with your friends. You've said you have male friends, so go out and have some fun with them. Keep yourself occupied.

3. Join clubs/ take up hobbies. Essentially choose some things that you're interested in and do them. If you like horse riding, then join a club. If you like body building, join a gym.

4. Immerse yourself in university work. Focus intensely on getting your work done and completing your final year. If you start thinking about her, consciously change the topic in your head so that you aren't thinking about her. Force yourself to think about other things.

5. Keep yourself busy. If you're sitting around all day doing nothing you'll wind up thinking about her, hence the creation of this thread. Make lots of plans and full your day with activities.

6. Do not talk to her. If she unblocks you, then block her and do not unblock her. Avoid all contact. Whenever you talk to her you wind up miserable, especially considering you know she doesn't actually like you.

7. Do not date right now. You're mentally unwell and in a bad place. Dating will just make you think of her until you're over her, and it's not fair on the girls you date if you can't fully commit to them.

If you follow this, you will get over her. But you have to actually try, and stop wallowing in self pity and trying to get sympathy from us on the student room. You need to be proactive.

Tbh I think you completely deserve it.

HOWEVER, I'm going to give you advice on this, yet again. If you choose to ignore it this time then that's your choice but you'll be left feeling this way for a very long time.

1. Deliberately focus on other things. Every time you catch yourself thinking about her, stop and make a conscious effort to think about something else.

2. Go out with your friends. You've said you have male friends, so go out and have some fun with them. Keep yourself occupied.

3. Join clubs/ take up hobbies. Essentially choose some things that you're interested in and do them. If you like horse riding, then join a club. If you like body building, join a gym.

4. Immerse yourself in university work. Focus intensely on getting your work done and completing your final year. If you start thinking about her, consciously change the topic in your head so that you aren't thinking about her. Force yourself to think about other things.

5. Keep yourself busy. If you're sitting around all day doing nothing you'll wind up thinking about her, hence the creation of this thread. Make lots of plans and full your day with activities.

6. Do not talk to her. If she unblocks you, then block her and do not unblock her. Avoid all contact. Whenever you talk to her you wind up miserable, especially considering you know she doesn't actually like you.

7. Do not date right now. You're mentally unwell and in a bad place. Dating will just make you think of her until you're over her, and it's not fair on the girls you date if you can't fully commit to them.

If you follow this, you will get over her. But you have to actually try, and stop wallowing in self pity and trying to get sympathy from us on the student room. You need to be proactive.

Stand on her

Believeteam22 you have posted your situation on several online forums. Your last thread on TSR was locked by a moderator. It sounds like you need professional advice from a doctor. There is nothing anybody here can say to comfort you anymore. It's all been said before.