Finding a partner this day and age - scared I am doing to end up alone!

Tinder is HORRIBLE. Period. I'd rather die alone that use that actually 😅

I will condense this as much as possible despite the fact I feel like ranting due to my frustration on this topic.

I am a 22 year old female second year undergraduate psychology student who plans to study on to be a clinical psychologist (hopefully) but everyone at uni are mostly overseas students, are very antisocial or only got into uni through clearing (it's low ranked at the bottom of the league tables, one of the worst in the UK so you can imagine what the people are like) When I try to make plans they never work and nobody puts the effort to talk to me outside of uni unless it's coursework or exam related.

I even tried going to the student union a few times and didn't click with anyone as most of the guys were 28+ and abit Pervy. Tbh, at this point I have NO life outside of uni and my social life and dating has hit rock bottom.

I even resorted to setting up an online dating profile to meet new guys and friends and it didn't end up well, the guys were so socially award that they could not hold a conversation, talking to them was like digging for gold or the remaining guys were VERY desperate and pushy so I removed my profile. I also had a bad date from online dating last summer as they guy wanted to just use me for sex.

I thought if I am struggling to even find a decent guy to even talk to despite the fact I am not socially awkward or bad looking (in fact I get harassed a lot in my area) Imagine if my life is still going to be same when I study on for my masters and PhD and when am in my late 20's and thirties when I should be settling down having kids and getting married.

I am so worried over this, I think if I am struggling to find a partner now I never will. My last relationship was bad, I met him at college and been single for a year and a half.

What would you do if you was me? Any help would be need! I even am considering fertility treatment to avoid missing the chance of having children as I don't think I will have them the normal way the way my life is going now

C'mon. There are some complete f*ckwits out there.

She doesn't want a guy who thinks lighting his own farts is a great joke.

Hardly makes her a snob.

I have personally met three people on Tinder that have become great friends who I talk to everyday, meet up for coffee etc. I am starting to think it is your attitude that causes you to be alone.

I'm sorry in my opinion dating apps RARELY have decent people and most of the guys (not all) are defective and are at the bottom of the social pile. hence why they have to join a dating app. They either (from my experience) can't pull a girl because they can't hold a good conversation and it is like digging for gold to try keep the conversation going, they also can't get a woman because they don't want nothing serious and decent women can see right through them in real life so they have to try elsewhere or they are running out of "resources". Oh and not to mention I spoke to a guy and exchanged digits, he came up as a friend suggestion as I had his number saved and his Facebook photos looked NOTHING like his photos on OKCupid (that's what I used). I showed both photos to a friend and they actually thought it was two different people, it's just too risky in my opinion that's why I feel like I should build my life more around academics so I will never have to resort to those options again.

Yes there are legitimately a very small percentage of decent people but you'd have to weed them out of hundreds of people who don't have good intentions.

I had a really **** experience with someone I met on dating website also so that's my opinion.. Call me stuck up, I don't care. I got a life to build rather than argue with people who know nothing about my life and choose to judge. But it was good to get my point across and find others who feel the same.

I'm sorry in my opinion dating apps RARELY have decent people and most of the guys (not all) are defective and are at the bottom of the social pile. hence why they have to join a dating app. They either (from my experience) can't pull a girl because they can't hold a good conversation and it is like digging for gold to try keep the conversation going, they also can't get a woman because they don't want nothing serious and decent women can see right through them in real life so they have to try elsewhere or they are running out of "resources". Oh and not to mention I spoke to a guy and exchanged digits, he came up as a friend suggestion as I had his number saved and his Facebook photos looked NOTHING like his photos on OKCupid (that's what I used). I showed both photos to a friend and they actually thought it was two different people, it's just too risky in my opinion that's why I feel like I should build my life more around academics so I will never have to resort to those options again.

Yes there are legitimately a very small percentage of decent people but you'd have to weed them out of hundreds of people who don't have good intentions.

I had a really **** experience with someone I met on dating website also so that's my opinion.. Call me stuck up, I don't care. I got a life to build rather than argue with people who know nothing about my life and choose to judge. But it was good to get my point across and find others who feel the same.

I'm sorry in my opinion dating apps RARELY have decent people and most of the guys (not all) are defective and are at the bottom of the social pile. hence why they have to join a dating app. They either (from my experience) can't pull a girl because they can't hold a good conversation and it is like digging for gold to try keep the conversation going, they also can't get a woman because they don't want nothing serious and decent women can see right through them in real life so they have to try elsewhere or they are running out of "resources". Oh and not to mention I spoke to a guy and exchanged digits, he came up as a friend suggestion as I had his number saved and his Facebook photos looked NOTHING like his photos on OKCupid (that's what I used). I showed both photos to a friend and they actually thought it was two different people, it's just too risky in my opinion that's why I feel like I should build my life more around academics so I will never have to resort to those options again.

Yes there are legitimately a very small percentage of decent people but you'd have to weed them out of hundreds of people who don't have good intentions.

I had a really **** experience with someone I met on dating website also so that's my opinion.. Call me stuck up, I don't care. I got a life to build rather than argue with people who know nothing about my life and choose to judge. But it was good to get my point across and find others who feel the same.