My girlfriend doesn't want a threesome even though she's done it before

I found out my girlfriend had a threesome in the past but when I suggested the idea that we should do one she said no way why would I come up with this idea, advice on how to convince her it would be fun?

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

I found out my girlfriend had a threesome in the past but when I suggested the idea that we should do one she said no way why would I come up with this idea, advice on how to convince her it would be fun?

Do you want a MMF or MFF threesome? It makes a difference.

You don't. If she doesn't want to do it then you need to respect her decision.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

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Original post by Anonymous

Do you want a MMF or MFF threesome? It makes a difference.

I don't really care if it's male or female although would prefer another female

Reply 4

username2393237

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What is the point of being in a relationship if you want to sleep with other people?

(edited 3 years ago)

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SportScience98

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Original post by Anonymous

I found out my girlfriend had a threesome in the past but when I suggested the idea that we should do one she said no way why would I come up with this idea, advice on how to convince her it would be fun?

hat means that she does not want to have a threesome

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

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She said she enjoyed it so I don't see why she has a problem with it now

Reply 7

DrawTheLine

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Original post by Anonymous

I found out my girlfriend had a threesome in the past but when I suggested the idea that we should do one she said no way why would I come up with this idea, advice on how to convince her it would be fun?

You can't. Respect her decision. You can ask her how come she has changed her mind and ask her to talk about it so you can understand why she doesn't want to, but you can't force her to.

Reply 8

londonmyst

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You don't.
No means no.

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

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Original post by DrawTheLine

You can't. Respect her decision. You can ask her how come she has changed her mind and ask her to talk about it so you can understand why she doesn't want to, but you can't force her to.

All she says is she was young and stupid back then

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Lyndsey.95

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You don't. Maybe she just wants to sleep with you.

Reply 11

StriderHort

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Original post by Lyndsey.95

You don't. Maybe she just wants to sleep with you.

That's not sounding too likely either :rolleyes:

Reply 12

Foxehh

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Leave it. She said no.

Reply 13

Rose_symonia

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Original post by Anonymous

All she says is she was young and stupid back then

That doesn’t give you a reason to persuade her into doing it though?
In fact there’s no reasons as to why this is right

Reply 14

GabiAbi84

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Original post by Anonymous

All she says is she was young and stupid back then

Showing that her past decisions are in her past, she enjoyed it in the past but doesn’t want to repeat the experience.
You’ve asked, she’s answered.
I don’t know what you’re not understanding about it tbh...