Ok Basically Im new here so hello! Hope we can all be cool.
Anyway, to clarify, the OP probly stated this in a harsher way than it should of been stated, but i must say his overall interests were acceptable to me. For example, yes looks shouldnt define how you feel about a person, but lets be honest and human, they contribute. We all know this, so its only natural people feel insecure, especially people who have low self esteem.
Girls who dont receive the usual attention from guys because of their exterior very often have a low sense of self esteem, all the OP was really trying to say (in harsh words), was that, instead of complaining or feeling bad, they should get together the courage and take control of their outside. Even if looks arent everything they do represent you and it can do wonders for someones life.
Iam living proof. I used to be pretty...fat lets be honest lol, kind of a loser on the popularity scale, not invited to the cool parties, had one actual friend. You know what? Life sucked. I was really miserable. I had a strange revelation one day. I could change things. It started off with me losing my weight. Then I took an even bigger step and got my earlobe pierced (its fashionable in my area.). Eventually this escalated into me becoming more trendy. Now im a guy whos proud of his exterior and interior, who can afford the designer brands off my hard work(its my money who cares how i spend it haha!), fresh haircuts regularly, and im a Muay Thai Boxer. Guess what, I get invited to more cool parties then the majority of people now.
Long post sorry. but do you know what this means? Its sad but, Looks really can do more for someone. Even if the looks arent the core of it, its the effort, the grooming. People APPRECIATE effort, whether its in attire, product, or even your job. I think thats what the OP was aiming for.
So for god's sakes give the OP a break. Im sure his intentions werent to hurt anyone, plus if u read past the jagged words, hes very right you know... No ones gonna give you anything in this life if you dont go out and atleast try to get it.
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Trigger, your posts have seemed kind of rude to be honest. Im not having a go at you, but theres no harmful intention in the message here, possibly some truths that we just have to accept as society now. Im sure its a misunderstanding on your part or something.