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No sexual gratification whatsoever on my first 2 times, wtf?

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Original post by Anonymous
noporn was about a cocktail of sexual problems, including ED and escalation of porn preference. Two things i having experience. For all i know it could be something really simple and normal so it's worth asking.



So basically, you just kept having regular sex in new positions and cut out all fapping and it eventually just went away? Ok, i guess you'll learn to be less anxious and more in the moment and you'll eventually recondition yourself physically as well. One question, did you ever try without condom and did going raw still feel like nothing?


Yeah we just kept having regular sex and I told my girlfriend to stop putting any pressure on me coming or not, just having sex without having my orgasm as a target. This made me more relaxed and I stopped worrying about coming or not.

Your brain is used to different kind of stimulation and once you stop fapping after a few weeks your body will want you to ejaculate and it will be much easier. Remember, it's all psychological and you'll get over it!

I've never tried sex with a condom properly, I hate condoms! (quite lucky I haven't made anyone pregnant yet) The only times I tried it drunk and lost my boner immediately.

By the way, even 2 beers can make you a lot less sensitive!! I'd leave the alcohol out completely.
Original post by tooosh
If your problem was more with porn than fapping (which is what it sounds like), it'll take a lot more than 54 days of nofap to decondition yourself.


That's pseudoscience.
Circumcision reduces sensitivity and sexual pleasure, probably your problem. One of the reasons it's used by religious people.
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Original post by MostUncivilised
That's pseudoscience.


I'm not getting into this debate with you again. From last time it was clear you hadn't even bothered to read the research or testimonials, nor do you have any knowledge of addiction or neuroplasticity.

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