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I like older men - ask me anything.

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Reply 60

Tom_Ford

Original post by Fullofsurprises

I suppose that's exactly it - older men can be arrogant and it's sexy. :love:

Young guys often just look stupidly unrealistic doing it. :colone:

Hmm, I suppose it is easy to be arrogant when our cocks are fully functional unlike our grey friends. :lol:

Reply 61

Anonymous #3

I was the same at that age. Still the same now at 24 - I still fancy 30-50 year olds though, the age range hasn't increased which is a relief all round really.

Reply 62

AbdulKoyes

Do you think it's weird that in other western countries, a 40-50 year old dating you would be illegal?

Reply 63

democracyforum

Original post by Tom_Ford

Tbh I find couples in relationships involving a big age gap to look a bit repulsive. It is just odd seeing a 40-50 year old with a girl under 20. People make assumptions, is she an escort? Is she looking for his money? Did he groom her?

who cares what other people think ?

why even judge or mock others ?

I am past that point in my life where I judge others.

Reply 64

Tom_Ford

Original post by democracyforum

who cares what other people think ?

why even judge or mock others ?

I am past that point in my life where I judge others.

Good for you. I find it bordering on pedophilia.

Reply 65

The vampire

Wait till you're 18 imo

Reply 66

filthy_pup

Reminds me of this movie

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JTJtWmbBsRU

Reply 67

Zenomorph

As long as it's legal and both parties like each other.

Sure it's possible

Reply 68

anonymouspie227

Are you attracted to your dad? Do you have one?

Reply 69

Le Nombre

Original post by Anonymous

No. Being older doesn't mean being rich anyway.

If you're 30-50 and don't seem well off to a 16 year old you're probably lacking on ambition a bit. I'm only 23 and don't earn massive amounts, but to the average 16 year old my disposable income probably seems ridiculous.

Reply 70

Le Nombre

Original post by Fullofsurprises

I suppose that's exactly it - older men can be arrogant and it's sexy. :love:

Young guys often just look stupidly unrealistic doing it. :colone:

Yeah, I'm arrogant as and just seem like a **** :tongue:

. To be fair at 50 I'll probably just be even more arrogant and a bigger ****.

Reply 71

childofthesun

Are you Lana del Rey? She's also got a taste for men who are older :tongue:

Reply 72

xOHarriet

When I was 16 I had a creepy 35 year old trying to talk me into sleeping with him. It's not unheard of.

Reply 73

daisychain_

Hugh and Colin. 'Nuff said :colondollar:

Reply 74

MrEFeynman

Original post by Tom_Ford

Good for you. I find it bordering on pedophilia.

Your inability to keep your terribly naive judgemental thoughts to yourself, is probably exactly why she struggles to find people her age attractive. As long as an individual is 18+ I believe there choices are their own to make. I am sure if people knew all your likes and dislikes, you would have your own fair share of ignorance to deal with.

People have absolutely no right whatsoever to even think about criticising other people, as long as there actions do no harm. Hopefully some of the overly youthful posts in here, will eventually of come from people whom have managed to increase their maturity as they age.

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 75

Anonymous #3

Original post by daisychain_

Hugh and Colin. 'Nuff said :colondollar:

...and Russell :biggrin:

Reply 76

MrEFeynman

Original post by vader9280

If you think it's 'normal' for a straight 16 year old girl to not fancy attractive young guys but 50 year old men with balls sagging till their knees, you're mental. She has some issues (which is not her fault), but let's not just say that she doesn't.

What is normal? Opinions change with time, nothing is constant. As I said 18+, but as you asked it is not for you or me to decide what she should or should not feel. Did you know genius and insanity are two sides of the same coin.

The reason the World is in the state it is today, is down to people believing they know what is best for others. As you age, age itself becomes less relevant. Maturity and age fortunately/unfortunately are not linked together. I was more mature at 16 than most of my peers are now. We make mistakes when attempting to judge people, as we are judging them with what we know and what we think is right or wrong.

As the saying goes, "try walking a mile in my shoes." In other words, you know nothing about that individual, and will never be able to understand why they feel or act the way that they do. This is why judging other people is pointless. You always judge them as if you were in their place, with your own experiences, and none of their's.

Reply 77

Zenomorph

So what's the longest your relationships have been with OM ?

Reply 78

Cassadee

I'm 20 and my boyfriends 30
Got loads in common and have a strong loving relationship.
As long as you're a legal adult (18) and find someone you have similar interests with. I think you can be happy with someone of any age :smile: