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Guys, would you be fine dating someone that's saving their virginity for marriage?

I've decided that i'm not having sex until I get married (for religious reasons) and was wondering whether that would put a lot of guys off. Not trying to sound conceited but I'd say I'm fairly attractive. I do get guys asking me out etc. But, regardless of whether I find them attractive or whether I genuinely like them, I always turn them down because I feel as though majority of guys expect sex out of a relationship, and I obviously can't give them that. Also, I feel that if I dated a guy I'd be putting him through a lot, as however long we dated he wouldn't be able to have sex. So, guys if you genuinely liked a girl, would you refuse to date her because you wouldn't be getting sex out of it or would you date her regardless?

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Reply 1
To be honest waiting till marriage is not a popular concept nowadays, if indeed it ever was. You might have to seek out someone who shares your religious beliefs or else be prepared to fall in to a bit of temptation.
yeah
Reply 4
No
Yeah the idea gives me a hard on
Original post by Prince Kael'thas
Lol that vagina better worth it though


Saps

lol if you say so
Original post by mathsmathsmaths
Yeah the idea gives me a hard on


lol cringe


How will you satiate your urges?



Original post by + polarity -
lol if you say so



The OP is the sort of girl that thinks guys in relationships shouldn't watch porn.



The long game is not worth it.
Original post by Prince Kael'thas
lol cringe


How will you satiate your urges?






The OP is the sort of girl that thinks guys in relationships shouldn't watch porn.



The long game is not worth it.


It is worth it in my mind and my opinion:smile:

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Original post by Prince Kael'thas
lol cringe


How will you satiate your urges?






The OP is the sort of girl that thinks guys in relationships shouldn't watch porn.



The long game is not worth it.


Got no urges lol...medicated to hell and impotent.

Joke would be on her if we got married and she realised she was the thirsty one :tongue:
Reply 10
Original post by Prince Kael'thas
Girls like you who think they're too good really get under my skin. It's like you think that you're worth more than you're actually worth which is laughable tbh.



If you want to "save yourself" for marriage then don't enter a relationship.







Lol that vagina better worth it though


Saps


lol I don't think im 'too good' AT ALL. Far from it actually. I didn't say I was saving my virginity until I meet someone that meets my standards. I said I was saving it for religious reasons. Also, I'm pretty sure that the guy I end up with is going to appreciate the fact that I've only ever been with one guy and haven't slept around.
no, and it would make me respect you less
Original post by Ladanjason
I've decided that i'm not having sex until I get married (for religious reasons) and was wondering whether that would put a lot of guys off. Not trying to sound conceited but I'd say I'm fairly attractive. I do get guys asking me out etc. But, regardless of whether I find them attractive or whether I genuinely like them, I always turn them down because I feel as though majority of guys expect sex out of a relationship, and I obviously can't give them that. Also, I feel that if I dated a guy I'd be putting him through a lot, as however long we dated he wouldn't be able to have sex. So, guys if you genuinely liked a girl, would you refuse to date her because you wouldn't be getting sex out of it or would you date her regardless?


I'd date her regardless, myself. But rather than turn them down, why not explain your beliefs and let them make their own mind up?
Reply 13
Original post by Ladanjason
I've decided that i'm not having sex until I get married (for religious reasons) and was wondering whether that would put a lot of guys off. Not trying to sound conceited but I'd say I'm fairly attractive. I do get guys asking me out etc. But, regardless of whether I find them attractive or whether I genuinely like them, I always turn them down because I feel as though majority of guys expect sex out of a relationship, and I obviously can't give them that. Also, I feel that if I dated a guy I'd be putting him through a lot, as however long we dated he wouldn't be able to have sex. So, guys if you genuinely liked a girl, would you refuse to date her because you wouldn't be getting sex out of it or would you date her regardless?


Quick and easy answer: Definitely yes.
Reply 14
Probably not
Original post by Ladanjason
lol I don't think im 'too good' AT ALL. Far from it actually. I didn't say I was saving my virginity until I meet someone that meets my standards. I said I was saving it for religious reasons. Also, I'm pretty sure that the guy I end up with is going to appreciate the fact that I've only ever been with one guy and haven't slept around.






What's so good about just having slept with one guy? What's the big deal. Is your vagina more clean?
No, I would find the relationship extrememly frustrating. I can go about two weeks without sex in my relationship (long distance) before it starts stressing me, so I can't imagine being happy in a relationship like that. I would also feel that if the girl really trusted me, liked me, and found me attractive, she'd want to have sex with me. If religion overruled that logic, I wouldn't want to go out with her in the first place.

I assume you wouldn't date an atheist anyway?
Original post by Prince Kael'thas
Having sex = being a slag?


Wow


What if you just had sex once b4 when you were 16?



I would much prefer to marry a virgin, rather than a women who had "slept around"
Original post by Thestudent12345
I would much prefer to marry a virgin, rather than a women who had "slept around"


Sexy
Original post by Thestudent12345
I would much prefer to marry a virgin, rather than a women who had "slept around"


My point is that you seem to think that having sex makes someone a slut and therefore anyone who is not a virgin has slept around.



You're perpetuating misogynistic standards for girls.

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