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Is kissing good or exciting or just something we do?

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Reply 60

amberskye

It sucks when the person you're dating is a terrible kisser

Reply 61

username1003420

Original post by AnharM

Looool just curious...was it a random guy/fling, or was it your boyfriend? :tongue:

Loool not a random guy, it was my boyfriend :smile:

we're not together anymore, he was an ******** lol

Reply 62

AnharM

Original post by tammie123

Loool not a random guy, it was my boyfriend :smile:

we're not together anymore, he was an ******** lol

Why not? What happened?

Reply 63

username1003420

Original post by AnharM

Why not? What happened?

It's a long story lol and I don't wanna talk about it. Thanks for the concern though :smile:

Reply 64

Kallisto

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Original post by Anonymous

I've recently started seeing a new guy and like all other boys I've kissed i just don't feel like the moment is special or nice. Kissing seems like a chore that just has to be done. Is it just me that thinks kissing is in a sense boring? I do honestly like this guy and I have done with all others but I quiet simply just don't get the whole concept?!!!

I don't think that kissing between partners is an act of chore, but a sign of love. A concession to be exact. Perhaps it is a naive view of myself who has not experienced the true love so far.

Reply 65

username1003420

Original post by Kallisto

I don't think that kissing between partners is an act of chore, but a sign of love. A concession to be exact. Perhaps it is a naive view of myself who has not experienced the true love so far.

true love doesn't exist :redface:

Reply 66

Kallisto

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Original post by tammie123

true love doesn't exist :redface:

If true love does not exist, I must be naive indeed. :lol:

Nevertheless love is a feeling of affiliation? :confused:

Reply 67

troodon

Original post by Anonymous

Lool I get you! I'm like ok when can we stop this

Reply 68

Tai Ga

kissing makes me moist. You're doing it wrong OP.

Reply 69

Flame Alchemist

Original post by chlobofro

Then you haven't ever been kissed properly. A good kissing session turns me in to goo...

I hope you don't mean literally... that'd be quite a surprise for your partner... XD

Reply 70

childofthesun

Maybe you're not really attracted to the person? Kissing shouldn't be boring

Reply 71

Dani California

Original post by tammie123

true love doesn't exist :redface:

Promise you it does.

Reply 72

trustmeimlying1

Original post by amberskye

It sucks when the person you're dating is a terrible kisser

ooppsssiess...

Reply 73

username1469511

Hey I really wouldn't worry about it. It takes time and practise. Up until recently I didn't think kissing was that great, even with guys I really fancied nothing seemed to click. But you know hey, you can alter your experience slightly by trying different things etc, you'll get there.. It won't always be feeling like " oh, is this kissing :/"

Reply 74

pezhman

I don't think that walking out and kissing whoever in the road is a good thing to do. If you look at a person's eyes, you would find out whether you have any feeling to the guy or not. 😘

Reply 75

chlobofro

Original post by sjgriffiths

I hope you don't mean literally... that'd be quite a surprise for your partner... XD

I'm only half telling the truth. Haha

Reply 76

Slim and proud

Original post by Calpurnia

Amen.

Just to be clear, I'm not advocating kissing so that people go out there and start having sex .

I also believe in no sex before marriage, like Ekemini.

Reply 77

possumbadger

It depends on the person and the situation.

Obviously a kiss will be a turn on if you fancy the people, and are feeling a bit frisky.

When I'm feeling horny and in the mood, a passionate, deep kiss really does it for me :colondollar:

But I'll often kiss my girlfriend when I'm not feeling horny, and it'll either put me in the mood, or it'll just feel nice as I like kissing her...makes me feel close to her :smile:

It can feel just a bit 'meh' if you're kissing a random though I would imagine, especially if they're rubbish at it!

Reply 78

Emily.97

One of the things I hate about being single is not being able to kiss someone I'm in love with. I think its one of the best parts of intimacy- its anything but boring <3

Reply 79

Calpurnia

Original post by Slim and proud

Just to be clear, I'm not advocating kissing so that people go out there and start having sex .

I also believe in no sex before marriage, like Ekemini.

I appreciate that kissing and sex are not synonymous, but I am curious as to why you'd consider one is fair game before marriage whilst the other would be off-limits?

Not that I necessarily disagree with you, but I'd love to hear your thoughts as to why the distinction between these two very intimate acts.