How do I get over this girl?

Yes, he probably is mentally ill, but he refuses to go see a GP; many have been telling him this for the past two years and he refuses to take any advice on board. Mental illness is not an excuse.

So why don't you just stop posting and coming onto his threads then?

obsession is a horrible thing to have and for some people it is not as simple as just forgetting about it and moving on.

You dont sound very helpful at all with this 'just get a ****ing life'. 'you pathetic'. etc. Do you actually thinking speaking to someone like that is helping?

How will I ever recover from this? I just want to hide in a hole and never come out. I ruined everything. I am very stupid.

Yes, he probably is mentally ill, but he refuses to go see a GP; many have been telling him this for the past two years and he refuses to take any advice on board. Mental illness is not an excuse.

It is a reason. And I have seen people posting here 'get a ****ing life', 'you pathetic.' 'you freak'. Yeah thats very helpful an't it.

I have time to spare at the moment.

Which is why he needs professional help like I and dozens of others have said he should get for years and he has continuously lied and changed his story about getting help.

Some people say being told the harsh truth helped them get their act together, some people it doesn't. Either way at this point I don't care.

No. I think I am just obsessed with this girl now. The way she has treated me has just made it worse. I will go to the GP very soon I promise.

No. I think I am just obsessed with this girl now. The way she has treated me has just made it worse. I will go to the GP very soon I promise.

Why don't you go to the doctors?

If you dont care if your advice helps him get better or not- why continue to posy? Surely you have something better to do than putting down a mentally ill person? Or does putting others down make you fell good about yourself?

No it's not. I'm mentally ill myself, more severe than this guy (I would never wish what I have on anyone, trust me) and yet I never use my mental health as an excuse. Not for my uni work, or my relationships with people.

I would suggest you go look at some of this user's past threads and then you can see why people are so frustrated.

I did once before. But things got sorted out and I was ok for a few months so did not need to go again. That's why I did not go before. I will go again very soon.

Mental health can have a huge negative affect in those areas.

I know he's been making threads for years. He is obsessed. He has a condition. Teling him to move on and calling him pathetic is not going to help- just make things worse. If he annoys you that much- just stop posting.

Not at the moment no.

And some people should be made to feel ashamed of their actions, because they need to know they have to change.

Lol, "putting him down" I'm telling him the cold harsh truth and he needs to hear it. And it's not making me feel any better or any worse about myself. I say what needs to be said. I don't care at all if you don't like it or you think it's mean or will hurt his precious fee-fees. The boy needs to stop lying to himself and to us, stop making excuses and actually make a change. I have 0 sympathy or respect for him after all his lies and excuses.

Oh look I thought people said you weren't trying to help yourself?

You need to phone up and make an appointment tomorrow morning.

Yeah you should be made to feel ashamed for your actions- you need to change.

Bet you one of these people that believe depress people just need a kick up the back side and are nothing but attention seekers.

oh no he does not get the sympathy of a monster-- whatever will he do.

I did once before. But things got sorted out and I was ok for a few months so did not need to go again. That's why I did not go before. I will go again very soon.

then be prepared to be on a waiting list for 2 years.

You don't need to tell me. It's so much fun writing essays while having a psychotic meltdown.

It does annoy me but I do want to help. I've suggested GP, counselling, as have many others. People have suggested hobbies, distractions, him focusing on his uni work, but he refuses to listen. He instead wonders how to talk to her. His question is 'how do I get over this girl?' The harsh reality is that he really doesn't want to. He refuses to and yet he makes such threads.