lol but your all kids on here. im 24, attractive, educated, smart and used to have the same beliefs as you. i met many of the following guys
1) mr ex-playa who despite who*ing the field, wants a 'nice' girl to settle with and thinks he deserves you. he plays around yet looks down on women doing the same.
2)mr nice good guy who respects your beliefs but expects you to get into a serious relationship and/or proposes within 3 months
3)mr lets-pretend who will pretend to agree with your beliefs until h he gains your emotions and trust, then puts the moves on you and/or threatens to dump you unless you put out, once he's sure you are too emotionally involved to turn him down without getting really hurt
4)mr bit-on-the-side...he agrees and respects your beliefs, towing the panty line like the perfect gent, dating you for months until YOU are ready. with one catch - he's getting it good on the side quietly with your friend jenny, your sis and the girl from teh next dorm.
5)mr really weird-insecure, the guy with weird personality quirks or eczema or somethig unusual which has made him too inhibited to have sex. he pretends to be all moral and good until wham you find out he's a 30 y/o virgin due to massive c*ck eating scabies he was too scared to show anyone. you get the idea
i find most guys are no 3 or 4 and most good guys (1) will want to marry you without really knowing you. trust, you are setting yourself up for a long lonely path. most guys will cheat on you or dump you . how old do you realistically expect to be when you get married? 20 - 25? well, how many guys of the same age want to settle down and think you are the best girl they will meet when they have all those oat sowing years ahead of them. they cant even afford to pay off theier student loan, how will they afford to pay off a £10k white wedding plus honeymoon plus start paying mortgage and babies?
plus if you dont have SBM then you wont be cohabiting before marriage which is a whole other can of worms....