I guess its the upbringing of a child. If the parents brings up their child with beats and spanks etc then it might have a physiological affect later on in their lives. Im indian and a muslim too (its quite hard to find a person from india who is a muslim as the population of india is generally filled with hindus) and my mum would never hit me when I got something wrong when she would teach me how to read the quran. When I started going to the mosque to continue practising my arabic, the teacher over there would slap/punch/kick the students if they kept talking persistently or if they had difficulty on reading the quran. Most of us were about 12-19 and we would just laugh at each other anyways since we were used to it. But then the teacher did go over the limit once and the student did complain to the police and since then the teacher hasn't hit a student.
Bottomline, obviously the OP's (if that stands for original poster) parents are Muslims. Im guessing their mentality is a bit different to yours and they probably are bringing you up as how they were brought up. You should stand up for yourself though, at times I've had to stand up for myself to my parents. Also, since your born as a muslim, you generally classified yourself as a muslim despite you not knowing much about the religion. Thats the problem. You haven't researched about the religion. Once you researched about it, you'll realize its a way of living your life. The prophet also said in a hadith (I forgot what hadith and im para phrasing it), 'if you haven't prayed, then pray 1 prayer, once you pray that prayer consistently pray 2 prayers and continue this trend until your able to pray all the 5 prayers in a day'.
Islam is not a religion in which it forces someone to do something.
I dont know if my answer made sense or not, im not good at this type of discussions, just wrote the first thing that came into my mind so yeah.