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    I am sick of guys coming on here and moaning about how they can't get anywhere at the club. Wah wah wah wah! It's as though the club is the be all and end all in these people's lives. It's sad.

    First off I'll say the club isn't for everyone. Just because you can't get a woman's attention at the club it doesn't mean you're less of a man. I prefer to sit down with a drink and have a good talk over some good music. Clubs have never interested me. I'm 26 now and I'm single at the moment and I don't care for the club. It's a kids game. Everytime I step in a club it's like one huge playground. If you aren't into club culture then is there any wonder why you can't 'get the attention' of women in there?

    Have you thought that women who will find you attractive just don't hang around in the places you frequent (meatmarkets)?


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    Why The Club Is Bad For Picking Up Girls:

    Clubs are loud, this means verbal game is all but useless

    *If you aren't a promoter, celebrity, staff or a hot girl you are an outsider*. As an outsider you have no value.

    There are a million distractions for women in these environments, its very unlikely you’ll be the most interesting thing in her reality

    Clubs are the Olympics of socializing, meaning the difficulty and competition level is highest, you can make things much easier focusing on social circle, online and meeting women during the day

    Generally speaking, quality women do not go to clubs very often or ever, that means the girl you met at the club is most likely not a fit for anything besides a casual relationship

    Cockblocks are everywhere in the form of the girl’s friends, her guy orbiters secretly in love with her, her song coming on that she needs to dance to etc.

    You’re also working against the stigma of being a random guy, that means not only do you have to pass her filter, you have to pass her friends and extricate her from having a good time to come with you at the risk of her reputation

    The entire nightclub industry is built off the backs of guys trying to get laid but paradoxically the club is the hardest place for the average guy to get laid
    Well... I have advice for you guys: GET OUT OF THE CLUB!! If you go to a place and it makes you feel down and in the dumps then why are you there? If more guys woke up and left the bright lights of the club then the nightclub industry would suffer greatly. The nightclub industry completely relies on desperate and lost men.

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    I understand where you're coming from for most of your post. But some of us actually like the music they play there! Electronic dance anthems all the way!
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    Yeah your post assumes that all guys go out with the intention to pull, I did at first then I realised just how difficult it was and began going out to have a good time with my friends and dance instead

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    Firstly, you clearly don't "get" clubbing, like a lot of people on here. It's fun. I've been hundreds of times when I've been in relationships, with no intention of cheating, it's enjoyable, it's great to get drunk and dance like mad, I crave it if I haven't done it in a while.

    However, clubs are often good places to pull women, because it's where women go to pull men. I always used to use the smoking area to chat up women, or there is often a quiet bar area as well.

    I don't know if this is English, but he places way too much emphasis on promoters (only place I've seen them have any real influence is abroad, otherwise it's just a website or 18 year olds trying to earn a few quid handing out flyers), and I've never even heard of "bottle service", but I'd never buy a girl a drink at a club.

    Also "quality" or "hot" women do go to clubs. Why wouldn't they? It's just somewhere for people who enjoy drinking and dancing and music to go. Unless you're snobby about those things, they don't make you a lower quality person.

    Ironically, you seem to be moaning about clubs more than anyone?
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    That's for white guys lol


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    Right, I'm a 19 year old white male and went clubbing last night in Birmingham. When I got there, there were loads of whites, black and brown people so I thought cool, everyone's mixing. When it came to the dancefloor and griding with girls though, only the coloured people (brown and black people) danced like mad and grinded with girls. The white guys just started sitting down and drinking, as if to let the other guys dance. Not one white person!!!!! The coloured people seemed more out going, loud, better dancers and basically pulled nearly all the fit girls.


    Then when everyone starte leavign the club, all the nice looking girls were leaving with the asians and blacks to go to their apartments. I mean me and my mates (Also white) left with no girls.:mad:


    is it in the coloured peoples genes to be more confident or something because it sure looks like it when I've been clubbing.


    Also, these Indians and blacks were those rudeboi types of people and were drinking a lot more and actually like ****ing animals in and out of the club!!


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    Some people just go cause it's fun?

    Or just become staff, fish on a barrel job then.
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    There's nothing worse than going to a club with someone who's only there to pull.
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    (Original post by Le Nombre)
    Some people just go cause it's fun?

    Or just become staff, fish on a barrel job then
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    Is it? I don't recall seeing the bar staff and bottle collectors pulling much. Or do you mean promoters? Maybe if it's some super exclusive London club, but at most places I don't think people are going to fall head over heals for someone handing out coupons for half price entry before half eleven and free shot of corkys.
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    My friend turns into a sap in that sense. Unless he can pull he doesn't want to go out at all
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    (Original post by Mankytoes)
    Is it? I don't recall seeing the bar staff and bottle collectors pulling much. Or do you mean promoters? Maybe if it's some super exclusive London club, but at most places I don't think people are going to fall head over heals for someone handing out coupons for half price entry before half eleven and free shot of corkys.
    Often the same people, some nights you promote other nights bar. Think it's just that you get to talk to so many girls, getting numbers etc. is easy if try at all, obviously can't get with them you're at work. I suppose it's probably a skewed sample most clubs choose staff based in part on looks and being quite socially confident.
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    Does nobody else enjoy going to clubs even without trying to pull? Going just for the sake of getting laid seems a little sad, I just go because it is a fun thing to d with friends. And seeing as most female friends I go with go for the same reason that is probably why some guys find it hard to pull, a lot of women there aren't even interested in that. I enjoy it even more now I have a girlfriend because it removes a lot of the pressure.
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    (Original post by lucaf)
    Does nobody else enjoy going to clubs even without trying to pull? Going just for the sake of getting laid seems a little sad, I just go because it is a fun thing to d with friends. And seeing as most female friends I go with go for the same reason that is probably why some guys find it hard to pull, a lot of women there aren't even interested in that. I enjoy it even more now I have a girlfriend because it removes a lot of the pressure.
    Going out to pull is a bad idea, you most likely won't and then your night is ruined. Having friends like that is even worse too, they ditch you so they can find girls and then you have nobody to enjoy yourself with

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    (Original post by ElChapo)
    Yeah your post assumes that all guys go out with the intention to pull, I did at first then I realised just how difficult it was and began going out to have a good time with my friends and dance instead

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    I understand where you're coming from for most of your post. But some of us actually like the music they play there! Electronic dance anthems all the way!

    True, but in the majority of clubs most guys will be on the prowl and pining for female attention. Most clubs are meatmarkets. Especially in towns.

    In cities like Manchester and Leeds though you get places that emphasise (usually underground) music (your places that play specialise more in certain genres of music like funk and soul), though in these places you still get the 'guys on the prowl' thing to a certain degree. It's just the music is usually more enjoyable and more people are there to dance. if you have 10 meatmarkets and student meatmarkets in an area you usually have 3 decent clubs.

    In meatmarkets the music is usually the last thing on people's minds.


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    (Original post by datpiff)
    True, but in the majority of clubs most guys will be on the prowl and pining for female attention. Most clubs are meatmarkets. Especially in towns. In cities like Manchester and Leeds though you get places that emphasise (usually underground) music (your places that play specialise more in certain genres of music like funk and soul), though in these places you still get the 'guys on the prowl' thing to a certain degree. It's just the music is usually more enjoyable and more people are there to dance.

    In meatmarkets the music is usually the last thing on people's minds.


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    I think tv gives off that false impression that clubs are the place where you're gonna get some "poosay" but actually it's not that easy. The girls will get with the usual suspects, if you can't find girls outside the club, your luck won't change inside. Unless you prey on the drunken schlagssss

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    If you go to a club to pull, you almost inevitably will have a pretty average night, even if you are successful. If you go to a decent club with your best mates, where the DJ is good, and you are in the hallowed optimum state of drunkenness, and just dance your ass off, you have a great night and often you'll pull girls without even realising. Girls are way more attracted to someone who clearly knows how to have a great time with their mates than some lecherous old ******* who stalks girls around the dance floor.

    And there are definitely some clubs (often ones with more of a drug scene, if I'm honest) where virtually no one is preying on girls, and no one wants to fight, and the music is far better, and it just validates the clubbing experience.
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    (Original post by datpiff)
    True, but in the majority of clubs most guys will be on the prowl and pining for female attention. Most clubs are meatmarkets. Especially in towns.

    In cities like Manchester and Leeds though you get places that emphasise (usually underground) music (your places that play specialise more in certain genres of music like funk and soul), though in these places you still get the 'guys on the prowl' thing to a certain degree. It's just the music is usually more enjoyable and more people are there to dance. if you have 10 meatmarkets and student meatmarkets in an area you usually have 3 decent clubs.

    In meatmarkets the music is usually the last thing on people's minds.


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    Did you just learn the term "meatmarket"?
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    sick of guys moaning about women on tsr
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    I get bare poon when I hit the clubs, you mad?
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      (Original post by Josh_B)
      I understand where you're coming from for most of your post. But some of us actually like the music they play there! Electronic dance anthems all the way!
      Fact: People who refer to songs as 'anthems' are 100% more likely to be complete and total tossers.
     
     
     
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