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    Hi. I'm 18 and I identify as a gay man . I have had a fair bit of sex with quite a few men who I have all met online through facebook, grindr etc. Recently I have wondered what it would be like to at least try a women once. I have been unable to find any online apps to meet women so I will have to try nightclubs etc. But how do I chat one up. What do I do. What do I say. I need help. Thank you.
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    Da serious ****? :lolwut: you're gay and wanna pick up a ladeh?
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    (Original post by pocahontas lol)
    Da serious ****? :lolwut: you're gay and wanna pick up a ladeh?
    I wanna try it just once as I am not 100% sure I'm gay or Bi. At least once.
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    You could try the direct approach: 'Hello, I'm gay - at least I think I am...........Fancy a shag?'

    On second thoughts, perhaps that might not have too much success.

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    No idea. I'm not gay or bi.
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    what the hell??
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    First, learn how to spell woman
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    try complimenting her hair or something...still sounds sick doe
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    OP i like dink too (no homo)
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    (Original post by n_hundred)
    what the hell??
    Don't you mean, W.T.F? literally! :eek:

    Perhaps a new acronym is needed: W.S.I.F? What Should I ****?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hi. I'm 18 and I identify as a gay man . I have had a fair bit of sex with quite a few men who I have all met online through facebook, grindr etc. Recently I have wondered what it would be like to at least try a women once. I have been unable to find any online apps to meet women so I will have to try nightclubs etc. But how do I chat one up. What do I do. What do I say. I need help. Thank you.
    You be honest with her and tell her that you expect nothing serious out of the relationship and you are just I dunno considering your options. You make sure she understands that it's just a one night fling and so she doesn't expect anything more. Women are nice if men are honest with them. (I am a woman so I know)


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    try complimenting her hair or something...still sounds sick doe
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I wanna try it just once as I am not 100% sure I'm gay or Bi. At least once.
    Oh okay then Well in that case...

    don't try to purposefully be a douche to prove to yourself/others that you're straight or could still get ****ed by a girl even though you're gay. :rolleyes: You need to go the same route as a straight dude to get a woman, and that means just be respectful, for starters. I can't give you exact tips, but keeping the mantra of being respectful and confident and not a creep never fails.
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    (Original post by TheTechN1304)
    First, learn how to spell woman
    Thanks. I don't seem to be able to edit my post.
    Do I just go to a club and try my luck. Approach all the single women and just ask for a shag outright. What do I say.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Thanks. I don't seem to be able to edit my post.
    Do I just go to a club and try my luck. Approach all the single women and just ask for a shag outright. What do I say.
    why don't you ask some of your female friends
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    (Original post by uberteknik)
    You could try the direct approach: 'Hello, I'm gay - at least I think I am...........Fancy a shag?'

    On second thoughts, perhaps that might not have too much success.

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    No idea. I'm not gay or bi.
    That would work well actaully, its funny. Just make sure you come across like you are kidding.
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    (Original post by n_hundred)
    why don't you ask some of your female friends
    Something tells me OP asking for tips on how to get "a women"


    means he's not one of those gays surrounded by women. Not all gays are fab, booboo :talkhand:
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    If you're not finding yourself physically attracted to any women, I'd say that you're not bi and you can skip having uncomfortable sex.

    I didn't have to bang a bloke to work out I was straight.
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    (Original post by n_hundred)
    why don't you ask some of your female friends
    I don't really have any and certainly none I would consider talking like that with.
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    (Original post by Retired_Messiah)
    If you're not finding yourself physically attracted to any women, I'd say that you're not bi and you can skip having uncomfortable sex.

    I didn't have to bang a bloke to work out I was straight.
    The thing is I am beginning to become attracted to women and do at least wanna try it so I can see I have done it.
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    you can talk about anything i.e. the weather

    "Hi there! Great day for a f***"
 
 
 
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