I don't feel I'm satisfying my girlfriend in bed
Ok well firstly please don't take the piss lol.
Well anyway this is my first gf so I have no experience. Anyway whenever we have sex, I just never feel like i'm satisfying her. First of all, when I put the condom on it tends to make my boner go down a bit.
Anyway it comes back and we have sex, and she pretends to enjoy it which i guess is sweet, but i can tell she just doesn't enjoy it.
But I don't want to lose her, this is really serious because i love her
Well anyway this is my first gf so I have no experience. Anyway whenever we have sex, I just never feel like i'm satisfying her. First of all, when I put the condom on it tends to make my boner go down a bit.
Anyway it comes back and we have sex, and she pretends to enjoy it which i guess is sweet, but i can tell she just doesn't enjoy it.
But I don't want to lose her, this is really serious because i love her
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Talk to her about it. Tell her you want to make sex as pleasurable for her as it is for you so you need her to tell you what you need to do to make that a reality such as suggest certain things.
It may help to read forums and websites that give tips on sex and then try them out on her. You can find them via google.
It may help to read forums and websites that give tips on sex and then try them out on her. You can find them via google.
try different things until you find something she seems to enjoy.
don't just do the same thing every time.
and make sure the rest of your relationship is satisfying (like stuff you do as a couple).
don't just do the same thing every time.
and make sure the rest of your relationship is satisfying (like stuff you do as a couple).
Watch porn. Watch so much porn that you can't go into a supermarket without imagining how the cucumber and the 65 year old at the checkout could be getting it on.
In seriousness, if you're comfortable enough ask her if there's anything "special" you could do. Learn a bit about the female anatomy. And have a look at the boring womens forums, they give you a useful inside view.
In seriousness, if you're comfortable enough ask her if there's anything "special" you could do. Learn a bit about the female anatomy. And have a look at the boring womens forums, they give you a useful inside view.
Shadow!
get her on the pill
but i think she's had a previous partner, she already is on the pill though.
Try doing things first to get her going before you have sex. And talk to her, and ask her what she likes
Eljamaispa
Talk to her about it. Tell her you want to make sex as pleasurable for her as it is for you so you need her to tell you what you need to do to make that a reality such as suggest certain things.
It may help to read forums and websites that give tips on sex and then try them out on her. You can find them via google.
It may help to read forums and websites that give tips on sex and then try them out on her. You can find them via google.
not a big fan of talking it out...except maybe as a last resort.
mainly because it tends to put her on the spot and make her feel self-conscious...which would only add to the the OP's stated complex.
but i do agree about studying up in order to save the relationship (if you feel that the sexual aspect is really that important)...because there's so much information out there.
snipex
Watch porn. Watch so much porn that you can't go into a supermarket without imagining how the cucumber and the 65 year old at the checkout could be getting it on.
In seriousness, if you're comfortable enough ask her if there's anything "special" you could do. Learn a bit about the female anatomy. And have a look at the boring womens forums, they give you a useful inside view.
In seriousness, if you're comfortable enough ask her if there's anything "special" you could do. Learn a bit about the female anatomy. And have a look at the boring womens forums, they give you a useful inside view.
women's forums are not boring!
-Neon-
Move on from missionary?
I've tried that plus her on top, makes no difference.
iamadjmcrone
but i think she's had a previous partner, she already is on the pill though.
So why the condom?
talk to her about it, be open with her and ask her if you are satisfying her. i would do that if i was in your place x
Type Seymour Butts into google.Helped me when I was starting out.I'm not even joking!
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