Hi there,
I have recently made the decision to try a vegetarian diet. This is the 4th time in my life that I have attempted it, so I'm a bit worried that I won't be able to keep it up for long.
There are two main deciding factors in my choice this time around - firstly, I desperately need to change my diet as I am overweight, sluggish and do not eat nearly as healthily as I should. I live on a main road opposite a KFC, a fish and chip shop, a Chinese and an Indian takeaway, with a burger place, dominos and Pizza Hut all within walking distance. The temptation is huge! I have told myself that the only way I am going to be able to resist the temptation of ordering from these places, and ultimately save a SHED LOAD of money is by cutting meat out of my diet completely. I am a "mature" student living with my partner, and we need to save the money. I exercise a lot by walking pretty much everywhere, every day.
The second reason is a more personal one. I suffer from severe depression and anxiety, and recently adopted a cat who has quickly become my best friend and companion. Due to my mental health issues I have found that now we have a cat I have become deeply attached to animals, and the thought of causing any suffering to any living creature whether it is a cat or a cockroach is wrong, and it deeply disturbs me. I can no longer watch food shows or animal documentaries due to having anxiety attacks about animals being slaughtered needlessly. Basically this has affected my desire to eat any form of meat, and now I simply can't touch it.
I don't have many friends to support me with my choices, and my family see it as "just a phase" as I have tried it too many times before. The one friend I have at Uni, who I told about my issues with animals and hoped would understand, blurted it out to some of the other people on the course who literally laughed in my face and told me I was weak. I fear being judged, and my anxiety makes it worse. I feel as though in my peer group being a veggie is frowned upon - people see it as a hassle, and my boyfriend even referred to it as a "disease," albeit in a joking, banter-y way but still it makes me wary of who I tell about my lifestyle change.
There are other obstacles that I have already come across - first and foremost my boyfriend does eat meat. He is overweight and has been given Doctor's orders not to eat red meat due to having developed gout. However he still eats chilli con carne which I try to discourage him from doing, and regularly orders KFC. I hope with my change he can learn to eat healthier - I have no problem with him eating white meat as it is his choice and I cannot influence him, but I do tend to get jealous of the delicious looking chicken he eats!
I would love to be able to cook meals with him, however he is so fussy and will not eat potatoes, cheese or most green veg. I have already cooked one veggie meal with him, and he found it OK but of course said it would be better with chicken. He knows he needs to change too but has even less willpower than I do, and I am worried that his lack of willpower will effect mine a few weeks or months down the road.
I am not a fussy eater, but there are a few veggie foods that I refuse to touch - the biggest ones for me are mushrooms and large beans such as kidney beans. I cannot stand them! It seems that most "veggie" options on restaurant menus are mushroom or bean-based and I am worried that I won't be able to go out with friends if I won't eat these two foods.
Well those are my thoughts. I know it was probably TL;DR, so apologies if it was. I hope that I can find some encouragement here!
Thanks for taking the time to read if you did.