My boyfriend of nearly 2 years is close pals with his ex (Emma) and they hang out sometimes as they have the same friendship group. The chick hates me as she still has feelings for him. I've said to my boyfriend that it bothers me when they hang out, but I've said I dont wanna be the reason they stop being friends. They recently hung out 1 on 1 until late at night and we had a chat about it and I told him that that was not ok and he said he wouldn't do that in the future and that he wants me to feel secure.
Cut to the problem at hand now: my boyfriend has just told me that he's going to hang out with his mate Ry. He left and I logged onto his computer and opened Facebook, but his account was still logged in, and the message at the bottom was showing that he has just messaged Emma saying "on my way". So then I snooped, and saw that they're gonna be hanging out at her place.
I didn't mean to snoop, I was honestly just trying to log onto my own Facebook but I saw the message and couldn't stop myself.
What do I say to my boyfriend? We are in a rocky patch anyway so I don't want to tip this over the edge. And I know he will be pissed if he thinks I was snooping on him. He probably won't believe it was an accident.
I do trust him - I know they will just be innocently hanging out. But he knows it bothers me. And he lied to me.
What do I say? How do I approach this without damaging our relationship? What would you do?
Honestly ANY advice would be great