girlfriend seeing exes

No offence mate you seem like a genuinely nice guy but she is a ****ing slag, get rid of this cunt

been with gf a year. her long term ex is a complete waster, has no job, fat useless waste of space, cant drive, no personality, she did everything in that relationship. he also owes her thousands of pounds and at one point just left the country without telling her, to go and see a girl he met through facebook. yet she still wants to see this guy.

another ex of hers, although not a proper relationship, was a guy who she had a bit of a fling with from her old work. she wanted us to be in an open relationship so she could still be with him (even though he's with someone, but she's married! it's a mess and he sounds like someone with no morals at all).

i told her that must stop or i want nothing to do with her. she ended it. however i hate her meeting up with either of them. the long term ex is such a bum its unreal, apparently he sulks cos she is seeing me now all the time, and she wouldnt tell me the other guys name for about 8 months as it "was his secret to tell". i saw her emails the other week and she had sent him one which said along the lines of "hey gorgeous, sorry cant meet up with you tomorrow, my bf is ill and i have to look after him, i was really looking forward to it. darren (long term ex) is sulking cos ive been seeing my bf so much, and its really awkward for me to text u when im with him. im so glad ive got you my honey, i can always depend on you when im stressed".

she reckons she "strokes his ego" as she feels bad for breaking up with him. messages he sent her all start with "hey sexy", "hey babe" etc. and it really winds me up. she says she sees the long term one every now and then, she calls him sometimes as "he's almost like family". the other guy she says she could go a month without seeing and not think anything of it. i hate them both.

i was really hurt by that email and i wanted nothing more to do with her. we started seeing each other a bit more a week or so later. i do enjoy spending time with her but i do not like the fact that she keeps seeing those two. we had another argument about it the other day. after i saw that email a few months ago i told her i did not want to see her on days when she had seen them.

however, its now been about 7 weeks since then and no mention of them at all. so i know she's been hiding it. i confronted her about it on friday and she said she "forgot that rule". i said from now on i want to know before she's seeing them and i have no interest in seeing her those days. i dont wanna see her when she's got thoughts of them in her mind. she reckons this is not a good idea as i will be in a strange mood the next time i see her after, but i said "if ur meeting them as irregularly as u say u are then it wont be a problem will it?". she's been very quiet today and not heard much from her.

has anyone else been feeling like this about their partner and exes? i dont meet up with my exes, and whilst she says she would be fine with it, i know she wouldnt.

this is bizarre. sounds like your girlfriend has a finger in every pie and intends to keep it that way!

been with gf a year. her long term ex is a complete waster, has no job, fat useless waste of space, cant drive, no personality, she did everything in that relationship. he also owes her thousands of pounds and at one point just left the country without telling her, to go and see a girl he met through facebook. yet she still wants to see this guy.

another ex of hers, although not a proper relationship, was a guy who she had a bit of a fling with from her old work. she wanted us to be in an open relationship so she could still be with him (even though he's with someone, but she's married! it's a mess and he sounds like someone with no morals at all).

i told her that must stop or i want nothing to do with her. she ended it. however i hate her meeting up with either of them. the long term ex is such a bum its unreal, apparently he sulks cos she is seeing me now all the time, and she wouldnt tell me the other guys name for about 8 months as it "was his secret to tell". i saw her emails the other week and she had sent him one which said along the lines of "hey gorgeous, sorry cant meet up with you tomorrow, my bf is ill and i have to look after him, i was really looking forward to it. darren (long term ex) is sulking cos ive been seeing my bf so much, and its really awkward for me to text u when im with him. im so glad ive got you my honey, i can always depend on you when im stressed".

she reckons she "strokes his ego" as she feels bad for breaking up with him. messages he sent her all start with "hey sexy", "hey babe" etc. and it really winds me up. she says she sees the long term one every now and then, she calls him sometimes as "he's almost like family". the other guy she says she could go a month without seeing and not think anything of it. i hate them both.

i was really hurt by that email and i wanted nothing more to do with her. we started seeing each other a bit more a week or so later. i do enjoy spending time with her but i do not like the fact that she keeps seeing those two. we had another argument about it the other day. after i saw that email a few months ago i told her i did not want to see her on days when she had seen them.

however, its now been about 7 weeks since then and no mention of them at all. so i know she's been hiding it. i confronted her about it on friday and she said she "forgot that rule". i said from now on i want to know before she's seeing them and i have no interest in seeing her those days. i dont wanna see her when she's got thoughts of them in her mind. she reckons this is not a good idea as i will be in a strange mood the next time i see her after, but i said "if ur meeting them as irregularly as u say u are then it wont be a problem will it?". she's been very quiet today and not heard much from her.

has anyone else been feeling like this about their partner and exes? i dont meet up with my exes, and whilst she says she would be fine with it, i know she wouldnt.