My mom genuinely don't like me.

I'm a 16 year old Female I have two sisters and my mom is always comparing my looks with them and it's not only them it's everyone else. Everyday after I get done getting ready she's calls me ugly, pathetic, hideous and all that. She even said she hated me the most out the family. I literally can't take it anymore..I even got a new haircut and for a while it shut her up, but now today she's at it again. This time she threatened to not pick me up because i supposedly embarrass the family. She don't want to pick me up from work unless I have a detailed plan on how I'm going look prettier (and no I don't have a car yet) Someone please help me.

Reply 1

DevilHER

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Maybe talk to her, see why she hates you so much. I'm 14 (Almost 15) and my mom hates me too and is always telling me to do better and telling me to do this and do that but she was never like this till I came out to her and my dad (I'm bi) and she wasn't like this b4 I told her and I think that it's bc she does support me, but not really the point. 😅
I think you really should just ask her and see what she says and see if u can come to an agreement on whatever the problem might be.

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Reply 2

beefreya

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Original post by Idkanymore47

I'm a 16 year old Female I have two sisters and my mom is always comparing my looks with them and it's not only them it's everyone else. Everyday after I get done getting ready she's calls me ugly, pathetic, hideous and all that. She even said she hated me the most out the family. I literally can't take it anymore..I even got a new haircut and for a while it shut her up, but now today she's at it again. This time she threatened to not pick me up because i supposedly embarrass the family. She don't want to pick me up from work unless I have a detailed plan on how I'm going look prettier (and no I don't have a car yet) Someone please help me.

I'm so sorry you have to go through this, and know there are always people on here and elsewhere on the internet here for you. I think talking to her directly is unsafe so i wouldn't advise doing that.
I know my school does, maybe yours does too, but there is an anonymous student forum where you can talk to trained students at your school about any issues that you want to get off your chest. But if it doesnt here are some websites i reccomend you have a look at:
https://www.youngminds.org.uk/young-person/ - this is a mental health advocate website with ways to get help
https://giveusashout.org/ - free anonymous mental health support
https://www.kooth.com/ - anonymous support
there is always childline as a brilliant way to get support

if you feel unsafe in your home, please talk to a teacher or someone you trust on how to get out of your situation. xxx